Thought to Ponder...

No one falls in love by choice, it is by chance.
No one stays in love by chance, it is by work.
No one falls out of love by chance, it is by choice.
-Anonymous

21 comments

Sha Boogie January 23, 2008 at 4:41 PM

Wow..I can dig it. That is so true! Betta' preach Eb!

Afrodite January 23, 2008 at 5:25 PM

Very true. I'm experiencing the last line as we speak.

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eclectik January 23, 2008 at 5:42 PM

I say sure.
Chance...work and choice.

Who's choosin me!?

e.

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Divine Blackness January 23, 2008 at 6:28 PM

My goodnesss....that's so real.
And so true.
SMH.

Smarty Jones January 23, 2008 at 7:45 PM

Damn right! ;-) This was so on time today.

Mizrepresent January 23, 2008 at 7:57 PM

Tell it EB! You are such an old soul!

Skoolboi Krush January 23, 2008 at 9:30 PM

I don't know if I agree with that falling out of love by choice line.

maverick January 24, 2008 at 2:17 AM

No one falls in love by choice, it is by chance.
No one stays in love by chance, it is by work.
No one falls out of love by chance, it is by choice

to add to it...

no one thinks abt love...it is by instinct...
no one knows how to love by instinct..it is by nature...


cheers!!

Opinionated Diva January 24, 2008 at 10:13 AM

I second Krush.

That last line just sticks with me...I don't believe falling out of love is necessarily a choice.

If you can fall in love "by chance"...why then, can't you fall out of love "by chance" - *shrugs* shit happens.

lea78 January 24, 2008 at 1:28 PM

so sad but so true, we all make choices and decisions regarding love, can't say they all have been good though

Shai January 24, 2008 at 3:11 PM

I agree with OD, I frowned at the last line.

Allied January 24, 2008 at 3:15 PM

Like i always say, Love is a decision.

Ticia January 24, 2008 at 5:31 PM

I loved that - beautiful!

Eb the Celeb January 25, 2008 at 7:03 AM

The falling out of love part may not necessarily be your choice, it may be the other person's but someone made the choice to no longer work at love, and I think that's what it was trying to elude to.

The Jaded NYer January 25, 2008 at 2:26 PM

...and let the church say amen...

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