Thought to Ponder : Time is Love or is it?

"Even a broken clock is right 2 times a day"
-I have no idea whose quote this is

Wondering if the feeling I have for someone 2 times in the day, is enough to negate the other hours that I am not feeling that way.

"The Broken Clock — The prototypical broken clock never moves. Its hands point steadfastly towards a single time of the day. Broken clocks have one great virtue: They get to be right twice a day. Always. Every day. They are the turtle to the accurate clock's hare. Rather than chasing the time around all day, they wait for the time to come to them."

A lot going on in my head right now... trying to sort it out... waiting for the time to come to me when perhaps he's waiting for the time to come to him...may be back later to explain.

10 comments

Lade December 12, 2008 at 12:03 PM

sounds kinda serious!!!

i wish that matters of love and relationships were as easy as picking petals off a flower while citing "he loves me, he loves me not" but reality shows that things just aren't quite so simple...

or are they? because of all the baggage that we as individuals bring to relationships (insecurities, self worth issues, uncomfortable with our feelings, etc) it makes the simple things in life so complex.

we only live life once that we know of... take a chance and let your heart feel, your mind wonder, and your body move like there's no tomorrow...

embrace your feelings and stop trying to think through them!

(dang, that sounded kinda good!)

Tee aka The Diva's Thoughts December 12, 2008 at 12:06 PM

Yeah, you definitely sound like you have a lot going on in that head of yours.

Urban Thought December 12, 2008 at 12:34 PM

I see you're taking the time to think about this as there is no time to waste. Not to mention, there is no time like the present to ponder on such topics. But I think I'll end my comment at this point because I'm feeling kinda corny as my time has run out.

I look forward to the follow up that will explain your thoughts.

RealHustla December 12, 2008 at 12:51 PM

I interpret this post as, looking for something wrong with the relationship because I'm scared of being vulnerable.

Thoughts of a Southern gal December 12, 2008 at 12:54 PM

That did sound good Lade! I agree with Lade. Embrace your feelings. It took me awhile to get to this point and it feels so much better. When I embrace them, I'm ready for whatever. If it doesn't work out in my favor, oh well. I keep pushing on.

CurvyGurl December 12, 2008 at 1:30 PM

Ahhh, the often limiting and discouraging timing factor. Been there. I guess I'd ask myself what's the worst that can happen by expressing my feelings. And like RealHustla said...am I'm negating my feelings trying to avoid vulnerability. Take your time, Eb, it'll work out :-).

R. Fitzgerald December 12, 2008 at 4:35 PM

Waiting for him to sing that BBD song, "I Do Need You"?

Malik December 12, 2008 at 11:00 PM

Just take your time. Take as much time as you need.

We'll still be here.

Monique December 14, 2008 at 2:28 AM

Damn, Eb. This sounds too deep for me to be reading at 2:30am.

x January 14, 2009 at 7:22 PM

i heard jay-z say it..

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