Questions for the Men...
What would you do for the Women
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1. The suicide rate for black men has increased 100% since 1980. Is there anything in your life that could happen where you would want to take your own life, what would that be and if so how would you do it? (Dig deep on this one fellas, no simple, "no I would never kill myself")
2. What makes you want to commit to a woman or have an exclusive relationship? Also mybrotha.com compiled a list of 5 assets women need to become Mrs. Right. Which one of those 5 is the most important to you and why?
3. If you had to choose from having a 2 inch penis or being blind for the rest of your life, what would you choose and why?
Female
1. If you were being sexually harassed at work, and you knew if you spoke up your career would be ruined for the rest of your life, would you keep quiet and stay on the job and put up with it, quietly leave the job and start over somewhere else, or report the incidents and try to go to court and get enough money that it won't matter that another company won't ever hire you? What would you do?
2. If you had to choose between 2 men. As far as personality is concerned, they are the same, they have the same career, and their personality is everything you could have ever asked for. They both love you with all your heart. You both already have a child together. One of the men gives you the best loving that you've ever had, but he's shooting blanks and you can't seem to get pregnant. The other man does nothing for you in the bedroom, you actually despise that fact when he's feeling a little freaky because you know it will be a big disappointment to you. But you know even though he nuts as soon as he gets in, that his sperm has what it needs to get to the egg and give you another child if wanted. Would you not have anymore kids for sexual bliss for the rest of your life, or rather have more children and be sexually unsatisfied for the rest of your life. Remember, you already have 1 child together. What would you do?
3. If time got kind of hard, and you needed money quick and fast to survive and were only given the following options in order to get that money, what would you do:
a. Strip at a party where you knew you would know most of the guys present
b. Go completely nude in Playboy
c. Sell a sextape with you and a politician/celebrity
51 comments
It's so funny you mention sexual HERASSment because I was thinking on this same subject on my way to school. I'll have to finish reading and post again when I get home tonight.
Great post!
1. hhhmmm, well I could see myself committing suicide if some way some how I was responsible for killing my daughter, I don't think I could live with that feeling. But I can't see that happening so I won't be pulling any triggers anytime soon.
2. I'd have to say support System with Smarty Pants a close second. I couldn't marry someone who doesn't have dreams and can't support mine. You want to be able to share with your spouse and if they shoot down your dreams you will shut down. Also you don't want no dummy wife so she has got to be smart to help the kids with their homework.
3. I'd take the lil dick all day. At least I'll be able to see the women I'm not satisfying. lmao
1. I could never see myself killing myself. To quote ya boy T.O..."I love me some me." The only way that I'd kill myself would be if somebody killed my sons. I couldn't live without them. I'd prolly have to shoot myself. No pill poppin
2. I'd say smarty pants. Intelligence is a must! I want someone who will be as smart as me. I'm right...most of the times...and I need somebody to be there for the times when I'm wrong. LOL. Seriously, studies have shown that we get most of our intelligence from our mothers. I need a smart woman to produce some smart kids.
3. While we've seen blind dudes have maaad kids (Stevie Wonder, Ray Charles)...i think i'd take the lil dick. I'd still wanna be able to see everything.
na wa 4 dis quest oh! If its a job ve been waiting for, i wont quit. I will pray and try and talk with him.4 naija, that court thing no go work. the media will twist it and u will be a part of a scandal headline.
really, marriage shouldn't be all about kids right? after all we can adopt! But never say never when u r not in the situation. u never can tell
ha! i will become a playmate! lol
1- Harassment: I would sue; my main career goal is to be self-employed, anyway, and the money could help me do that. Plus, even though sexism is good n alive these days, I don't think it would be hard for me to find another gig; I could go work for a female-owned business.
2- GURL! This is a no-brainer... I don't want the kids I HAVE, let alone some more!! LOL Why would I turn down some good loving just 'cause I can't get pregnant? Sheeeiiiit! That's a bonus to me!! There is such a thing called "adoption"...
3- LMAO!! Damn- those choices are hard... I guess I'd strip for my homies; the other two options would have "photographic evidence" of my nakedness that would follow me forever. I would HOPE that my guy friends wouldn't do me like that and just enjoy the show... and tip A LOT!! LOL
These are too real... LOL
1.Uh - I don't know.. is the harrasser cute? that may make the difference..okay, I am kidding.. I would run up on him on the weekend..with no witnesses and f**k him up...scare the ish out of him.....
2. I would go for number 1
3. go broke! LOL
1. Tough call. I'm an employment lawyer--so I actually know how hard it is to prove a case and be successful in it--plus the stigma and issues that are there. I think if it was intolerable, I'd report it to HR, while simultaneously looking for other work, when HR failed to do anything or I was retaliated against, I'd file a claim for sex harassment and retaliation and leave the job and go somewhere else.
2. I guess the question is, is having biological children more important than sexual satisfaction? For me, I guess yes and then I'd have to be creative for pleasure purposes.
3. A. B and C would mean everyone in the world would know your business. At least with A, you can relocate and make new friends. LOL
1. I would report the incidents to HR. I would also keep notes of the harressement so I can have something to back up my claims. If nothing is done, I would sue. (Anucha Browne Sanders and $11.6 million comes to mind). At the same time I would be looking for another job. Once I get that other job, I'm fucking something up at the job like erasing all my files.
2. I will take sexual bliss for $200, Alex. Being sexually unsatisfied for the rest of my life isn't very enjoyable. I would have to go out and find a splackavellie.
3. Ummm...this one is hard. I'll say b. Pose in Playboy. You know Playboy is a respected publication. LOL
I really don't want to think about the possibility of committing suicide but the only scenario I can think of is if I was responsible for my mother's death. That would be very tough.
A marriage is a serious commitment and partnership so I need a woman that is supportive. A quality I didnt see mention was a sense of humor. I need laughter in my relationship, it keeps me sane.
I'll take the 2 inches. For the same reason as Homer! lol
Tough questions. I wouldn't commit suicide because as someone once told me 'its a permanent solution to a temporary problem'. For that to even cross my mind, which it probably wouldn't, would be if everything would be going wrong at the same time, like loss of job, significant other, parents, family, and things were just looking bleak. But still, I would look to other things, like God.
And the commitment thing...I'd have to know that she was the one...or the prototype. I'm not looking to settle, but I'm more than willing to compromise. She has to embody everything that I love in a woman, and love me for me, not the thought of me or what I represent. And I guess in that list, it would have to be smarty pants, sexy, and suzy homemaker. I can't be with a stupid, unnatractive dirty female.
And I'd go with the 2 inch penis. I'm an artist, and I would be giving up way too much. Giving up sight is too much of a loss. Plus, I can please a woman in other ways. Just saying...
1 - I would totally file a complaint. Like the Jaded Nyer said -- my goal is to be self-employed anyway.
2 - That's a hard choice because I really do want kids. Oh wait, I forgot u said that I would already have 1 child. In that case, go for the guy who's better in bed.
3 - I would pose in Playboy. At least I could be all airbrushed!!!
Leave it to Eb ...
1. I would report to HR on the first and second incidents. Then I'd file a lawsuit on the third. You have to establish a pattern right?
2. That's a good question. Usually, in my experiences, the guys who are mediocre when it comes to sex have the best conversations and the most intelligence.
I'm not sure I could go through life with a guy who could put it down but doesn't offer anything else.
So the answer to this question depends on how horny I am on any given day.
3. I would so have to do the tape. Let's be honest, if you run up on the right celeb or politician, you may not even have to go public with the tape. You could blackmail his ass and you'd have a steady income.
Your block is haaaat Eb fa real.
Let me get to the goods...
1. Spiritually I "slay" something within me everyday (most days), so if we want to get really deep, I'll quote the biblical Paul and say "I die daily" That may be too spiritual for some (shoooo even me for real) so a more realistic scenario for me would be kinda like the final scene of set-it-off when Queen Latifah was like "Efff it!" and she drove towards all the cops with shotguns and though she died from another's bullets, she made the decision to essentially take her life. Now, Im not planning any bank robberies but if it comes down to me against the "mob" so to speak - Oh you best believe your boy is going down swinging. I may die but I wont be the only one (I'm not carrying the world on my back for nothing...oooohhh that's gangstA!)
2. That list is almost laughable - not that those qualities are hard to find, but they make it seem so matter-of-fact and so easy and its anything but. No single person (man or woman) just automatically fits with the other bc they have a few qualities that match a survey. If we are looking for one thing or just looking at one person and not looking at ourselves at the same time then guess what (our relationship is screwed!!) So for real for real, "committed relationship" is really a gat damn catch 22 bc if per chance you simply wanted some "in house (P-you-ess-ess-why)" guys have to say stupid ish like "Will you go with me? Will you be my girlfriend? But if you decide that you don't want to ask those questions then you are labeled as a dog, playa, so on and so forth and you have to get a whole new set of friends. Marriage is a whole diff topic so I'll save that response for a personal post
3. This question is so unfair on so many levels because it really asks are you selfish and insecure or are you self-confident and a bit vainglorious. Most men might think they'd rather have a 2 incher but I measured two inches with a ruler and for real for real - we don't want that ish for ourselves, let alone our partners. I believe most men enjoy pleasing their partners (at least to some degree - lol) 2 inches is smaller than my pinky. I can't put your legs behind your head, stand-up while hitting that ish from the back, get served reverse cow-girl, soup spoon you up, and a host of other positions with 2 inches!!! That would cause severe depression leading me back to question one (you know, a reason to "end it all" - lol)
The benefits of being blind are numerous - heightened sense of touch (yeah baby), smell - which means taste as well. So what, I can't see all the beautiful curves and cheeks and cheekbones and my fave sex song could no longer be Neyo's in the mirror (LMAO)
I would turn on my Stevie "These 3 words" and become the hopeless romantic I was destined to be - which leads me back to question 2 - I would commit to the woman that would still love me if I were blind. She would dress-up for me as if I could see her. She wouldn't make faces or gestures eventhough I was blind. She would act as if I was looking right at her even if we were in different places - (ooohh, that boy deep!!)
Sorry this response was so long, but you know I don't do 2 inchers =>
BLOG WORLD... I HAVE AN ANNOUNCEMENT... AFTER THAT RESPONSE I AM UTTERLY AND COMPLETELY IN LOVE WITH SOUMY...
SO I AM TAKING THIS TIME TO PUBLICLY PROPOSE... WILL YOU HAVE ME... BECAUSE I DAMN SURE WILL HAVE YOU...LOL!
1. I'm more of a reactionary chick. I probably would verbally assault someone who attempted to sexual harassed me. Hands down I would report the harassment. I love myself too much to let it go. ON top of that, my long term goal is to make my money work for me.
2. I would go with dude who appears to be shooting blanks. There may be a quick fix to that problem. I dated a dude who is currently shooting blanks due to stress. Doctor's explained to him that the problem is sperm from bith sacs don't let go at the same time...I may be explaining it wrong. Point is, the problem may be corrected medically.
3. I would probably go with B
Good questions...
1. I would report the incident. Why should any female be disrespected in that manner anywhere really. i wouldn't be able to take it. I think thats why some crimes done to women keep happening because we keep silent. I would definitely stand up for myself.
2. This is a tough one. I'm really big on personality but being unsatisfied in the bedroom for the rest of my life doesnt sound to appealing. But If I choose life with one child when I want more could be equally disheartening. I really dont know. I would probably go with the guy that "shoots blanks" because more then one area is being satisfied. I can always adopt children.
3. lol I think I would go for broke lol. Dont think I would be able to look myself in the mirror if I did any of those things.
I would prolly get my cousins to LIGHT HIS ASS UP off peak hours...Nah...Im playin..That is a TOUGH situation but I would get proof in any way that I can to MAKE SURE it is known that this man is a perv and making my work environment extremely uncomfortable before I report.
Look into adoption with dude that is LAYING IT DOWN!!
Cuz if Mama aint happy..NO ONE IS HAPPY!!
B. I'd be a different twist on Playboy and they ALWAYS talk good money.
ima get me a hidden cam and mic
get evidence for that sexual harassment claim
then claim my damn money
i can work with either dude
but ima have to go with the one that can satisfy a sista
i plana on adopting anyway
strippin at the party it is
but playboy is a close second
itll be number one if i can choose the pose
make it some artsy shit
1. I think I could handle the sexual harassment. I would prob just deal with it.
2.I would chose the guy who left me sexually unsatisfied. Having children is way more important to me.
3.I been broke for so long I might as well stay broke..but since I know you will make me choose....I might strip(depending on who the guy I knew where)or pose for playboy.
1)I was harassed once in a job- i reported to HR. He was moved to a different department... If it were my superior... i think i would probably do the same thing (cause most of the people in hr are women...lol)
2)I'll get back to you when i've actually engaged in the carnal pleasure and understand what i'll be given up...lol
3)ummmm- pass
umm yea, I'm with you Eb, I think I'm kinda in love with Soumy now lol i lost my train of thought so I'll have to come back with my comment.
1). if something happened to my son's and I was accidentally responsible for some reason? I'd have to cancel my own show, seriously.
2). I couldnt get with that list. All that I know is that for me, I need my woman to know what it means to be a lady, and what a real man is supposed to do for a real lady. There are many women out there, but not ladies. Lots of lil mammas but fewer real Mothers. These are the most important qulaities to me. (and good head)
3). Id rather have nothing but balls and a dick head, rather than being blind. Not ever being able to see wmy son's look at ,me with love and adoration? or the top of the lil japanese lady head, while she gives happy endings at the "massage" parlour? you bloody crazy?
Good lord woman, what's up with these questions?!?
1) The activist in me wants to say that I'd try to take my company's asses to court but knowing the legal system, it will be hard as hell to fight. Maybe if I had someone on tape saying some sexually offensive stuff, I'd go through with it.
2) I'd choose the guy that's giving me sexual pleasure. After all, we already have a child together...
3) I would so go nude in Playboy! Photoshop works wonders!
Not sure If i would ever kill myself, but if my mother, sis or niece died because of me (i.e., car accident) I would be crushed. So maybe that scenario.
I would committ to a woman for the 5 reasons the link gave. But I would also committ to a woman who knows how to take care of her man. You know like paying attention, catering to my needs, being able to get what I am saying without me saying it. Chemistry is very important when establishing a relationship.
Being Blind would be my pick. Honestly, I love sex, but I love life way more and having my sight is something that I cherish. Thats a tough questions. I don't know how life would be without my manhood lol.
No reason to get the burner and one myself, no matter how hard Beans and Free rock the mic
Nothing makes me want to commit except a feeling and a moment...it could happen at anytime with any woman or not at all...it's the situation and the person
(and the stomach, legs, sense of humor, and areolas)
Give me the two incher...I only need enough to masturbate.
I gotz the hurricane tongue lol
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I am a believer in God and one who serves the risen Lord. That belief includes the knowledge that this life is just a dress rehersal for eternity. For THAT reason, I would never take my life. This life is but a vapor, but as Prince once said, "Forever...and that's a mighty long time."
In keeping with that theme, from the list, I'd have to choose spiritually minded (now that's someone elses list, but from that, I choose this). If you're not helping me live my life in a way that would get me to an eternity with the Lord, than you're hindering me...and I can't have that.
Also in keeping with all of this...hmmmm...that last question. Next time you're near a bible, check out Matt 5:29. Basically, it says to get rid of (figuratively and relatively) anything that can prevent your heavenly journey. Since 1 John 2:16 talks about the lust of the eye and the lust of the flesh, surely both can cancel your reservation. Hmmmmm. I think they eyes are where trouble starts.
1. I would report the incidents and take that sucka to court to milk him!!
2. This one is a no-brainer. I'm not really one of those women who HAS to have children, so 1 is plenty. I would take Mandingo and keep it moving...
3. I think I would strip for my guys. 9 times out of 10 they already know my situation and my reasons for doing it so I would hope they wouldn't judge me... yeah right...
1. this is extreeeeemly hard because to commit suicide goes against what I believe in.
I do hate when people don't choose an option in a hypethetical situation tho so heres my story and i'm sticking to it lol. If I was the cause of my family's death. That would be the only reason for suicide.
Personality and character...I can not stress how important that is. To me, that embodies everything that a guy looks for (thats not physical).
The spirituality is the most important asset on that BS list.
I would choose to have the two inch. the reason behind this is I am a writer and I love to make music. The way that my creativity works is that I see the music/lyrics. Thus my sight is extremely important to me. (I guess I'd have to have sex with a chip on my shoulder and work those 2 inches worth of nerves on the inside of my significant other until she fells like she's being Long-Johned and forgets the size)
1. I don't think you can every use a permanent solution to solve a temporary problem so I'd never off myself.
2. What makes you want to commit is a woman who has all the qualities that you are looking for especially being down for you. A woman who loves you after she has seen all your flaws.
3. I'd be blind. Ray Charles toured the world without being able to see so not having sight isn't a killer.
1. I would quit my job. Make a dramatic story and call Oprah.
2. Take the good sex. There are plenty of kinds (IN AMERICA) that need to be adopted.
3. Umm....this is kinda hard, I would have to let my guy friends get a peek, I would strip down to like a thong and bra. Not nude tho. No more element of surprise.
1. I would most definitely leave the job and file suit, but not before recording, filming all the mess that took place. I am such a fighter when it comes to injustice of any kind.
2. I would go with the man that fulfills me. Marriage is supposed to be forever, so if i can't be fulfilled, not happy, how can there be a forever. They have so many ways to conceive nowadays, that i think this problem could be remedied.
3. I would def go with the playboy shoot, something tasteful, but pays great!
these are some retarded questions but i'll answer them unlike you
1)i wouldn't kill myself for nobody
it would be selfish to kill myself for someone else becasuse they would wish that i lived anyway
2)if the woman is extreemly good in bed, gives me money when i need it and is nice to me 90% of the time (even when she doesn't want to be)
3) you know you my girl but i don't know you like that so i can't answer this
sorry
Well since Mr. Tubby called me out saying I didn't answer the questions... I guess I will take this time to do it now.
1. I would go for that settlement. I too do not want to work for the man forever and winning a case like that could give me the assets I need to start my own business. Although I would want it to be a quiet out of court settlement, so that it wouldnt effect my business negatively. nothin like that whole isaiah thomas situation.
I think I would go for the guy with the good loving... Like others have eluded to... there is always adoption, plus I dont want a huge litter anyway, so I could be fully satisfied with the one child we already have together... if its a boy... if its a girl, i dont know.
3. i would definitely choose the sex scandal with a celebrity but would hope that they would settle before I had to sell it to one of those companies that sells them.
1. If they cancel episodes of Classic Soul Train, it's over B! Just kidding. I would hypothetically co-sign on the fellas above who said "if I harmed the family". Especially if Mama meets the Lord before me. I am definitely jumping behind the casket.
2. I would commit if the woman's family likes me. My family doesn't care who I marry, but usually its the girl who has an evil family. And the asset I like most is intelligence. I definitely need a nerdy girl in my life.
3. A 2 inch penis wouldn't seem so bad, since I'm not using my 7 inch penis due to confidence issues. But I don't wanna go blind.
1. i would quietly leave the company and start over.
2. i would roll with the dude that was a monster in the sack, but shot blanks.
if i ever wanted another child, we could adopt.
can't apopt a good sex life, unfortunately.
3. i would do playboy and hope no one ever found out.
-1-
I'm cursing you Eb for these hard questions!
1. I worked way too hard for my degrees to not put them to use...I would make sure I could get lots of money, quit, and then work for myself (or start a nonprofit)
2. Easy...GOOD sex!
3. I'd do Playboy but pull a Kim K...she didn't show much
I would report this person. And leave with a bang... I'm known for being loud if they want to fight me for that.. .bring it on... I have some knowledge with how a lawyer works so i'd represent myself.... oh... I believe in self employment anyways...
2. umm I would just be with the one who can keep me sexually satisfied. There are other ways of having children...
3. possible playboy... i don't have to show my mini me so whatever... there is always photoshop... a womans best friend...
1. I actually get sexually harrassed every year at the xmas party. And throughout the whole night, the chick says "I'm so sexually harrassing you..." I kind of take it like when people start a sentence with "no disrespect" and say something disrespectful... But anywho, if it was unwanted, I'd file and sue. I went to take a break from working to finish my degree, so I'ld just start looking for work in my field of studies, once I graduated.
2. I would go with Good Dyck Danny... I only want one, plus if his pipe is broken, can't they go in and take the eggs I need. I'd use my harrasment money to pay for the surgery. But if that isn't possible, I'd just happy with my single baby and multiple orgasms... Wouldn't it be messed up if he had a low sex drive...
3. I'd become a playmate. Then I'd hang at the mansion and go to all the parties and eventually get me a rich hubby.
1. Easy-sue their asses. Most of these jobs don't rock my boat anyway.
2. Even easier, instead of putting up with a spouse who's gonna be the equivalent of question number 3 (the two incher) for the fellas, I'm taking the hot sex any day. One crumb snatcher will be PLENTY, no?
3. This is hard but screw it, I'm moving my broke ass back in with mama. My male friends are broke anyway,
'da hell have i been?? i've missed so much....well to answer ur question if am sooooooo broke i'd rather beg from EVERY option available b4 considering any of dose choices....but nice post and tanx for visiting:-)
Dang, I don't know where my comment went.
1: I have reported harassment twice. Both were superiors. Both were in government jobs. One actually grabbed my breasts purposely during defensive tactics. Both times there were witnesses along with others pressing claims. Both times the men kept their positions. Since I see how the system works, I would definitely stack my cards and go to court.
2: Since I plan to have enough kids to start my own Zulu tribe, I'm going with the brotha willing and able to provide the good sperm.
3: I'd tell the homies "put your cells in the box and prepare to make it rain."
Well let me see...
1. I'd report and sue...get that money and open a boutique or something...Being self-employed is the BIZNAZZ!!
2. Wait I already have one child?? I'll go with sexual bliss...one child is enough. I got enough nieces and nephews to not have ANY at all!! LOL
3. MAN...give me Playboy, baby!!! Aint nuthin wrong with it!!! Now if you woulda said Hustler or something trashy I'd go for broke.
Cool Questions!!!
1.I'd report it and get the money. Then spend the rest of my life doing what I really love to do.
2. Go with the good lovin' guy...we can go to the clinic to artificially insiminate (sp?) or adopt. I couldnt go on with someone I despise sexually..sorry
3.Wow...that's a hard one...probably go nude in playboy.
1. Keeping my sanity is JUST as important as keeping my job so there’s no way I’d sit back and suck that shyt up.
I would definitely report the incident!!
2. I could see myself giving up the chance to have more children for sexual bliss for the rest of my life -- ABSOLUTELY.
No matter what we try to tell ourselves about SEX not being EVERYTHING in a relationship, it definitely plays a big damn part [for me anyway].
3. I'd pose for the front cover of Playboy magazine hands down...
Sex tapes tend to follow you and can forever tarnish your reputation...
'Sides...the dudes I know don't have no real damn money so I wouldn't be taking my clothes off for a bunch'a nickle and dime mo'fo's.
1. There have been times before when suicide crossed my mind, but like Charles said, "its a permanent fix for a temporary problem."
2.Those 5 Qualities are good.But what about a woman that accepts and understands me? I'm not the easiest person in the world to be with and if she understands that, even better.
3. I'd take the 2 inches...smh... I'd rather have all 5 of my "main senses" intact. Theres more than one way to skin a cat, so to speak.
1. If my daughter passed suddenly, I think that might really push me over the edge. Other than that, I really don't see much that would push me to that edge. But then again, I wouldn't know until that moment occurred. But thinking logically, that's one of the only things that I can think of
2. Hmmmm, gotta do some soul searching on this one. I gotta take a pass and come back atcha with that.
3. Give me the blindness. Why?? Look at Stevie and Ray! They still got and get mad play. If they were walking around with two inch pieces, that's be horrible.
What I gotta do to get this kind of participation at my blog? lol
Eb: Preciate the love for the response. I think I'm going to post it on my blog - it was kinda tight tho huh? - LOL
BTW, you know how we Taurus' roll!!!
big ups to the playmates wannabes.
@ dollface - Kim Kardashian show more than enough in Playboy! Hef called her back to do nude, but at least she was dressed in diamonds.
Good Questions!
1. I would go to court...you got me messed up!!
2. I would take the good lovin hun. Adoption is always an option.
3. I would prob do a little dance for the boys...
1)COURT. I smell $$$$ girl!
2)Good lovin - one kid is enough and if we decide to have more then adoption is cool
3)Playboy, a secret sextape with someone who is prob married or has a public reputation is a no-no. Playboy is more "respectable" LOL
1. I would go someplace else. Your chances of winning a case are slim to none since a. they are difficult to prove and b. laws actually favor companies
2. I dont want children so the first guy is actually perfect!
3. Playboy--the others have way too much capacity to damage your reputation. I agree with the commentor above: Playboy is a bit more "respectable" lol :-)
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