In love with another man - Jazmine Sullivan

This new soulful song embodies so much. Click on the pic to listen then continue reading the post below.

So I pose the question to my fellow RBW's... Have you ever been in a relationship and been in love with someone else? Like the song eludes to, I'm not talking about being in a terrible or abusive relationship. I'm talking about having a good man, that loved and charished you... and your mature enough now to say that you've made a mistake.... and you left that guy for someone else that turned out not being good for you. I feel this song so much. This has happened to me twice in my lifetime. In my younger years I had a big fetish for the bad guy. Would have a good guy right in front of me but wanted to live on the wildside and I did. Dont get me wrong, I have no regrets about the decisions I made... but hearing this song just brought back so many memories.


soumynona October 21, 2007 at 11:09 PM

The song is deep! WOW! The things we men put women through...

BK October 22, 2007 at 8:58 AM

thanks.. good song.. I need to look her up!!!

and as far as the relationship thing.. NO I've never had that with me BUT the other way around where my ex's call me and hit me with something similar.. QUITE INTERESTING

Skinny Black Chick October 22, 2007 at 10:05 AM

This sounds like that 80/20 rule that they talked about in "Why Did I Get Married?" You'll only get 80% of what you need in a relationship. And when you're in the relationship, that missing 20% seems like the most important thing in the world. So many will leave their 80 in search of the 20. The problem is, you're worse off because now you're only getting 20% of what you need.

WhozHe October 24, 2007 at 12:30 PM

That's a delicate situation. I suppose we all have found ourselves possibly interested in someone else while committed to another. But hopefully, the feeling will pass, and we'll do the right thing. By the way, I love your blog.

Anonymous October 24, 2007 at 2:40 PM

I love this song and have for a while. This is a situation I am trying to get through right now....Help me Lawd!

Philly's Andrea October 30, 2007 at 2:54 PM

**sigh** that's all I've got to say.


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