Wrapping my chocolate legs around somebody

Not taking anything away from my redbone RBW's because you all know you are just as fabulous... but I am sooooo happy that the chocolate sistas are finally starting to get some love. I've never had a problem with my skin tone. Never felt subconscious about it, nor did I ever want to be lighter than I am now. I did have a slight complex when I was little since most of my little brothers and sisters are mixed and always had long wavy hair down their back growing up, but for the most part, when it came to the tone of my skin... I've always loved it.

A couple months ago... Yung Berg's whack self... tried to bring back the House Negro, Field Negro mentality with his comments, but I'm happy to say that Eric Benet has negated anything that lil ignorant midget had to say and in a way that is the epitome of sexy. Remember the blacker the berry, the sweeter the juice, and I've been told my juices are real sweet. Lawd let me stop...1 more week and it will be 4 months since I wrapped my chocolate legs around something and Mr. Benet aint helping me keep from wrapping them around something with this sexy video.

I was doing good too. Not even thinking about (like Bernie Mac would say) DA D*CK! Then I see this video and get all hot and bothered. Pray for my strength ya'll.


Jay1 March 24, 2009 at 11:44 AM

i been a fan of the chocolate,i approve this post!

Anonymous March 24, 2009 at 11:46 AM

Lmao... praying 4 u.

Chanel March 24, 2009 at 11:56 AM

Lord please keep her in your loving arms and quickly eviscerate all thoughts of *ahem* relations from her young and gifted mind before she pounces on somebody. Thanks.


The Jaded NYer March 24, 2009 at 1:12 PM

dammit, Eb! You know it's been damn near a year for me... why you posting this mess??

*side eye*

Kayos March 24, 2009 at 1:14 PM

I'm not chocolate but like you said...shout out to the redbone legs...

I approve this message!

T.C. March 24, 2009 at 1:29 PM

HOLD ON eb!!!!!!! and pray for me too its been rough...LOL

Jillian March 24, 2009 at 2:15 PM

lol @ Chanel's prayer...amen.

it's been going on 4 months..now that i think about it...haven't had any since it became 2009...i don't know whether to be mad or sad...LOL.

you can do it..well not DO IT DO IT but you know what i mean lol!

LaShawn Lytle March 24, 2009 at 2:27 PM

BIG WHOOP WHOOP for the chocolate covered sisters and the ones who love u!
I am the darkest in my family and actaully never felt anything wrong with it. I even use to tan!

Tuotierugif >^..^<© March 24, 2009 at 3:10 PM

I love this video, and eric is looking good!

Just Jasmine March 24, 2009 at 3:14 PM

I love the song, love the post. I hate that women are divided that way.
I always wanted to be choclate- i liked the way the vaseline would glisten.

Mimi March 24, 2009 at 4:02 PM

Good Grief!! That video!!! NOT.MADE.FOR.CELIBATE.FOLK.LIKE.ME!!!!!!! LOL

Anonymous March 24, 2009 at 4:56 PM

Love this song!

MDUBB March 24, 2009 at 6:23 PM

Damn I gotta female friend that needs to hear this song.

I haven't seen her in about two months, so I'm hoping she wraps her chocolate legs around me when I see her next week.

LipstickOne March 24, 2009 at 8:01 PM

isn't this the basis of his "problem?" lol

but yes, i feel ya...it's ben since october....and i'm holding on!

12kyle March 24, 2009 at 11:36 PM

Lmao @ u!!! 4 mos? Maybe you need to call JFresh...his relationship is on the rocks. Haaa

Light or dark...black women neva been out of style. Beleee dat!

Hadassah March 25, 2009 at 3:52 AM

Uuuuuh girl thats some steamy stuff. and oh by the way I tagged you!

love&nappyness March 25, 2009 at 7:22 AM

wait a minute!!! can we talk about the imprint at 4:00 minutes!?!?!?!!?!?!?!?!?!?!!?!?


Blu Jewel March 25, 2009 at 8:30 AM

I'm half-past due to wrap my chocolate legs around my him. *sigh* Been loving this song for real.

This video is smokang!!!

love to live; live to love!

NannDimples March 25, 2009 at 10:47 AM


girl, you done f*cked my whole day up. now Imma be thinking about you-kno-wat knowin damn well I'm not going to get some. *SUCKING TEETH*

The Second Sixty-Eight March 25, 2009 at 4:16 PM

Well, rather than pray, I will with you some dick instead!!! But only cause I love ya!

Smarty Jones March 25, 2009 at 6:12 PM

LMAO @ all ya'll crazy people!!!
I ain't mad Eb. I'm really not. You know I feel your pain. I went four years before so I have no sympathy for you. :)
I really hate it for your next victim. All I know is brotha better have a STRONG back! Lord knows, you're gonna wear dude out!

Keith March 25, 2009 at 6:28 PM

I can't believe all of these sistas out here on cold turkey....
Yall better buy a bottle of patron, put Marvin Gaye's "Let's Get it on" on the IPOD sound dock and call up your 'maintenance man"
(Most women have a maintenance man..who is called for those special occassions like ,when you be needed some."(smile)

(For tha record...I have always loved the chocolate sistas...)

Miss BB is... March 25, 2009 at 7:22 PM

I've been loving this song for awhile. Maaaaaaaaaan, the video is HAWT!!!!

Skoolboi Krush March 25, 2009 at 8:49 PM

Wait! Why are so many women holding out?

Yasmeen Christian March 25, 2009 at 10:23 PM

Love Eric Benet. Saw him on Melrose.

Ms. Liryc March 25, 2009 at 11:16 PM

((stands up and claps for the dark skinned sista's))

I remember the time when the dark skinned girls got no burn, and they were the last ones looked at.. Thank goodness the tables are in our favor. NO disrespect to my sisters of the lighter complexion but its our turn.

Girl hold on tight... get yourself a B.O.B (battery operated boyfriend) and you'll be OK! If that doesn't help, then you might just have to TAKE A COLD ASSED SHOWER!!

hold tight girl.. hold tight..((fist in air))

Chris March 27, 2009 at 1:37 PM

and I just finished blogging, worried about my lack of thoughts about sex as of late. Seeing this video awakened those thoughts in a HURRY. Nice post Eb, lol

Mr.Slish March 29, 2009 at 8:06 AM

Don't worry Eb you're not the only female out there holding on to her cookies...It seems to be a growing trend..Women not gonna do the casual sex thing anymore...I applaud U wait for something real because sex only last 10 minutes anyway after that what else you got...Yeah wait for someone real...

I.Am.Spoken.Word. June 19, 2009 at 12:41 AM

isn't eric benet a sex addict?

irrelevant, i know...

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