The hold he has is gone and its about to be a prob

The hold he has is gone and its about to be a prob

Labels: Datin' Sexin' Lovin'...oh my / My life / RBW Relationship Talk

I don't know if it was the couple of 60 degree days we had last week that let me know that spring is not to far away and time to regain my pimp status, or if I revived the old playa in me, or if I'm finally getting over the situation but I feel brand new after a conversation me and Semipro had yesterday. Maybe its the fact that I have a new crush, or maybe the fact that I went to the Tyra show yesterday and instantly fell in love with one of her security guards cuz got damn he was fine. He looked like a big and brolic Morris Chestnut. He had the sexiest lips and the goofiest laugh, but it worked. Prolly shouldn't be saying this just in case someone who works on the show reads my blog. Go back telling all my biz. Actually that may not be a bad thing since I didn't get his number. My other new crush is an industry cat. Don't usually go that route but he seems to be far from the typical. We'll see how that goes.

Either way, I came to this recollection yesterday evening when I was about to head out. 5 minutes before I'm about to walk out of my house Semipro calls. Yo, I'm in the neighborhood and about to stop by to pick up that spa coupon you have for me.

Backstory : I got a giftbag from an event I attended that had a whole bunch of stuff in it. One of the things was a spa treatment at a male grooming salon. So I offered it to Semipro since he's going on vacation at the end of the month, to get all snazzy before he leaves. Ain't I such a good friend. After reading Steve's book, I told him, yo you'll get the gift certificate after we go to the Sex Museum. I have had tix for us to go to the sex museum for months, at least 6, and we still haven't went. His trip is the last week in March... so on the last week in Feb, I told him he had until before his trip to take me or I was taking someone else.

He gave me some bull ish about not liking me putting him on deadlines and telling him what to do. I explained to him it wasn't a deadline, that I told him what I was going to do and he could do whatever the hell he wanted to do with it, and how the hell was it a deadline when it has been months since I've had the tix. He was like OK OK I'll let you know when we can go.

Now back to yesterday. So I'm like, I dont know wth you think this is. What did I tell you, you will get the spa certificate the night we go to the museum. He puts on the puppy dog voice, c'mon Eb don't be like... I'm right here at your crib. So I alert him that I have plans and am about to walk out the house. He's like, well just bring it out with you on your way out. I went in on this fool... literally... Why do you think this is blah blah blah, hell to the no I'm not bringing it out... and so on and so forth. I won't go heavy into everything I said but I really let him have it.

Afterwards I felt so brand new, so alive. I've been letting this full run a muck and have his way for the past year and that period is no longer. He laughed and was like , you're really acting like this huh? So obviously he thinks this is a game.

Cue Music - R. Kelly "When a woman's fed up"

Hate to have to quote Kels but this song is so true. I knew the time would come soon and I'm so happy its here. I am so tired of putting up with his bull. With him thinking that his schedule is more hectic than mine, that his time is more important than mine, that every time he decides to make himself available I'm suppose to be waiting with open arms. I had already explained to him that he no longer has the privilege to just show up at my crib unannounced anyway, and yet again he just pops up. Well its a wrap for all that....and just in time for spring.

Eb is about to be a prob!

I'm looking forward to mingling with some new cuties while this fool is sweating me trying to get back in. Because you know he will ladies! Shame you got a treat a nig like shit in order to get some damn attention and affection, but I'm ready for it!