Trying to brush the dirt off my shoulders like BARACK!

So for some reason I have seen a lot of female bloggers putting someone on blast lately... No one has said who it is so I don't know if this is the same person harassing them, that is harassing me... but I wont even say his name as to give him anymore attention because obviously that's all it get attention. He has no readers, so this entire stunt is probably just a lame excuse to draw attention to his lame ass blog and I'm not going to do it. A male blogger whom I hold absolutely NO communication with via blogs or offline, emails me on October 28th:

The subject of the email read "What come around goes around"

"I'm tired of romance being nonexistant...

for me and every other intelligent black woman in the world
its not non-existent for every black woman

just for the ones who talk about brothers and treat them like shit

i told you if you disrespect men then you dont deserve to be respected by them

i know there are some brothers out there who feel deserve to be disrespected
thats different

just wanted to write you something
sometimes i miss you and i think its foolish to keep things in when you are just an email away i hope things are going well with you though and i hope you arent as psycho as you were lol"

So I don't even know why I entertained this ignorant ass person... but I replied

"Never was psycho"

Never heard anything back from the weirdo... then out of nowhere on Election Day he emails me the following

"what the fuck is worong with you
were you raped or molested by a man or something
you need a therapy"

Now I'm looking down at my blackberry like what the hell is wrong with this fool. I am hot to death instantly... don't damn cuss at me out of the blue... I'm thinking... this crazy ass mofo... and nothing could keep me from responding in a nasty way even though I knew I should have taken the high road... so I respond

"Lose my fucking email... Fo real... Because obviously something is wrong with you... You are the one who needs therapy... Do I bother you... Do I email you... No because I don't give a fuck about you or anything having to do with you... Ya crazy ass needs to get a life because if you had one you wouldn't have so much time to email me ignorant ass shit. Someone must have stuck something up your ass when you were a little boy... Kinda like that antwone fisher story... So maybe you should join the armed forces like he did and you can try to get over whatever mental problems you have."

He returns an email

"you are a very wounded creature
its women like you who really give black women a bad name
i hate the fact that you infect so many black women with you evil
i think you should do the world a favor and kill yourself"

I didn't even respond to this email because it was suppose to be a day of celebration. I had voted... I was feeling good... and he just wanted to rain on my parade... so I ignored it.

AM I CRAZY... or is something seriously wrong with this fool... get a f8ckin' life!!!
How are you going to call me a "wounded creature" when you are the bitter one... I don't bother you, you emailed me with a whole bunch of nonsense so how am I the one who is wounded? Please don't make me have to put your ass on blast... please... your writing sucks, your opinion is the most asinine I've ever seen, by the looks of the emails above you're probably a little slow or dyslexic, and your ugly ass hell... so if anyone should kill themself, it should be you!

I can't believe I had to deal with this fuckery on one of the most important days in Black American History... So I'm just gon go ahead and brush the dirt of my shoulders like Barack!
I am still in disbelief that the system actually worked. I not only have a BLACK PRESIDENT... but I have a president that I truly believe will inflect change in our future. Words can't even describe how I felt last night when CNN officially said its a wrap a little before 11pm...
I will never forget the feeling I had, the tears that I wouldn't let fall (until he started speaking and told the story of the 106 year old woman in ATL, I couldn't hold it back anymore then) Thank you to my girls Dollface and Shelly Shell who were at the pub and celebrated this historic moment with me... Here is snap shot of us letting the world know that BARACK IS IN THE BUILDING...

and here is a quick video of our reaction after he was elected... its dark, but there's sound


B November 5, 2008 at 8:28 AM

Ahhh whatev. People and their negativity KILL me. But like you said, we ain't got time for that. It is a celebrate!!!!

Keith November 5, 2008 at 8:40 AM

It's a great day EB...don't let anybody take this away from you or us..Buy that hater a spelling book and tell him to go f%$k himself..

Meanwhile..let's get our two step on tonight to celebrate...I took the day off because I knew Obama was going to win..wasn't a doubt in my mind...I'm taking Mrs. Keith
to brunch and I'm taking a bottle of Champaigne with me..Gonna two
step down Broad Street baby...

Can you tell that I'm still high from last night???

MzInspiredMind81 November 5, 2008 at 8:51 AM

Hmmph, no comment to Mr Ignorant beside buy a vowel and get a clue.

Eb, I can't believe...WE DID IT!!!!!!

E2Deep November 5, 2008 at 8:54 AM

That stalker guy needs some Denzel Washington from “Antwone Fisher” in his Life. Damn you really put dude on Blast!!!


Ms. Behaving November 5, 2008 at 8:56 AM

WOW...Looks like SOMEBODY has got a lil' too much free time on their hands.

::shakin' my head::

You were right to just ignore dude...

With Obama being elected as President, this is a historic moment and I'm sure you'll agree that celebrating it is waaaaaaay more important than studying such ignorance.

Jada November 5, 2008 at 9:01 AM

Wow @ that foolishness. Girl some people live for drama...I'm glad you have decided to shut it down instead of indulging him...cause that's what he really wants.

But forget the HATERS! Today we have ourselves a NEW President who I couldn't be prouder of! We DID IT!

MP November 5, 2008 at 9:13 AM

that guy sounds like a little bitch! LOL bored and is probably still angry he was weened off the tit.

Ms. Lovely November 5, 2008 at 9:23 AM

angry bastid..fuck him.

guess what? MY PRESIDENT IS BLACK!!!

Miss Mahogany November 5, 2008 at 9:24 AM

Girl to hell with his psycho ass. LOL Was it just me or was it hard as hell to go to bed lastnight?! I was so damn excited!

Eb the Celeb November 5, 2008 at 9:30 AM

@keith - I am cyber 2stepping with ya bruh

@MP -lmao @ weened off the tit

@Miss Mahogany - The streets in NY were crazy... I didnt get home until a little after 4am... and was up at 7... with my tv on... getting as much coverage in as I can... I cant wait til 11 to watch the View... I cant wait!

WiZ November 5, 2008 at 9:33 AM

get that dirt off your shoulders barack.

Super Dave Van Buren November 5, 2008 at 9:37 AM

some people take the internet a lil too serious. Dude needs to get a life.

lol@ wounded creature though, that was funny. inaccurate but funny

iCandy21 November 5, 2008 at 9:38 AM

"so if anyone should kill themself, it should be you!"


Moving on...mannnn...last night...I felt so over joyed about the whole experience. My girls and I were in the house getting fried lol...celebrating...our answer to everything is just...Obama! plain and simple. You should email that man back, and just say...Obama! lol...but seriously...the 106 yr old lady...thats a blessing. she really has seen it all. There is a lady here who is 105 and voted. They had her on the news. It's a beautiful thing!

The Jaded NYer November 5, 2008 at 9:51 AM

I feel so unloved... no one is harassing me... aren't *I* harassable? I'm just sayin', damn! *sigh*

OK, enough craziness... I'm out LOL

Nina November 5, 2008 at 10:26 AM

dude is straight crazy!

yay!!!! i'm sooooooooo in disbelief right now!

Beautifully.Conjured.Up November 5, 2008 at 10:39 AM

Don't entertain that nonsense...we have more important information to attend to, like...


Fashion Guru November 5, 2008 at 10:47 AM

its a wonderful time to celebrate do not let the negative spoil this historic moment.

Lovebabz November 5, 2008 at 10:56 AM

LOL...I was going to leave his info in the comments, but he did it himself---he came and posted here. He came over to my blog and left me a similiar comment. And he meailed me...LOL You know I had to leave a comment or two for him.

I know he is mentally challenged so it makes it all the more sadder.

Too bad he has all this time on his hands to harrass women. HHmm I wonder if he is bold enough to run up on a Man's blog...probably not. Cowards don't roll like that.

It's a new day in America! HOORAY OBAMA!

Anonymous November 5, 2008 at 10:59 AM

EB girl its a new day!!!! OBAMA!!!!! I'm just so happy!!!!!

Eb the Celeb November 5, 2008 at 11:00 AM

The fool said dont mention him on the blog but I didnt even give him the satisfaction that's why he just had to comment... and then come back and comment again... he really has issues and I'm just going to delete every one he posts so its all good

@ southern girl - sorry but I'm going to delete your comment too since you mentioned his name... he gets no shout outs over at RBW!

12kyle November 5, 2008 at 12:03 PM

wowwwwwww!!! The fact that you have to create a blog to address this bs blows me away.

First it was karrie b...then it was you...and now lovebabz

C'mon homie. Leave these women alone. I'm sure that you can find something else to do with your time. Let it ride, bruh. These women can't even celebrate b/c you wanna "ack a fool."

Let it go

Pajnstl November 5, 2008 at 12:19 PM

cyberstalkers are a royal PAIN IN THE ASS!

But PRAISE GOD for our new President!

i.can't.complain. November 5, 2008 at 12:20 PM

Eb, my belle

Lol at the lame dude emailing u

He must be a mccain supporter

Yes we can


RealHustla November 5, 2008 at 12:43 PM

You tell him, Eb. Fuck him. I don't appreciate his lame as trying to analyze shit. He too stoopid to realize that women like us, our self esteem can rarely be manipulated with words from bitches.

I got a smart ass comment, bitch didn't even have a blog.

NaturallyAlise November 5, 2008 at 12:57 PM

Yes, that speech was so inspiring, and I am not generally a fan of speeches, but that was amazing, I cried like a lil' bytch, lol

contagiouslyCRANKY November 5, 2008 at 1:13 PM

shake off them damn haters love.... someone is obviously intrigued by you but still has that elementary school mentality so they revert to acting like a child. I was balling when Mr. President elect was giving his speech... I feel so blessed to be a witness of such a historic moment.

Monique November 5, 2008 at 1:14 PM

What the heck was dude's problem? Just ig ass. This is too important of a time. I'm still celebrating.

Anonymous November 5, 2008 at 1:15 PM

Wow. Dude is nuts but,anywho our president is Black! I still can't get over that!

Demon Hunter November 5, 2008 at 1:33 PM

Ignore scary, crazy guys over the Internet. There are now laws against it, so if it continues, file a report.

I love that video of Obama. I'm still in awe and shock. A great day indeed. Don't let anyone ruin it for ya, girl. ;-)

Mr.Socialight November 5, 2008 at 2:04 PM

lol. dude is wild.

on to importance...

is that your only Obama shirt? lol
Aight, Im playing.


Judy D. November 5, 2008 at 2:26 PM


fuckk that fool

ur fun to read n healing too

i dunno what he talking about???

i think he masturbates to yr emails... lol

Ticia November 5, 2008 at 2:45 PM

Man - that is nuts - I actually haven't been blogging like I use to so I am kinda out of the loop - yet... no one needs to be hating in the virtual world - I mean really--- like for real -

EB - live yo life boo!!

When you coming to the Chi?

T.C. November 5, 2008 at 2:53 PM

i agree...don't entertain its totally unbelieveable that he would even come at you like that and say those really makes me wonder if he has a mental health issue and i a dead serious...somethign isn't clickin in his head at all...

in unrelated and MORE important new than that bama (DMV term-CLASSIC)

yes we have an intelligent, humble, brave, strong president who gives up to all the brown, black, yellow and red and even white people of the world...he gives us ALL HOPE and that's what we need...HOPE and change!

clnmike November 5, 2008 at 2:57 PM

Bump that dont let the sour monkeys ruin THIS DAY, THIS WEEK.

This our time every one who wants to throw shadows in the daylight will have to miserable by themselves.

Happy Obama day!

CapCity November 5, 2008 at 3:14 PM

GURRLLL, NOTHING can BRANG me down THIS DAY!! I'm feeling so HIGH right now!!

And the CUTIES that were flirtin' with me on the train this mornin' only kicked my high to aNUTHAH level! I must have been wearing that new scent: Voted by Barack Obama;-)

Brothers Blog November 5, 2008 at 3:35 PM

Yeah don't let anyone no matter how ignorant take away from this moment. It's too good to let someone take away the joy we all have.

Eb the Celeb November 5, 2008 at 3:38 PM

@12kyle - I have no idea if they are having probs with the same dude or not

@realhustla - I couldn't have said it better

@demon hunter... scary? not at all... just annoying as hell... now the dude is commenting on my youtube videos... like fo real... he must not have a job either I guess... I knew he didn't have a life but now if your going beyond my blog to see where else I have content and commenting there... then you really out psycho

@mr socialight - yes it is AND so what... sorry I can't be the obama fashionista that you are... and the pics I posted yesterday were taken weeks ago... I have only wore the thing 2 or 3 times

@Ticia - I have no idea... probably not until tj's bday next year... I cant see a reason why I would have to be there before then

Brandi Bates November 5, 2008 at 3:56 PM

Girl...he sounds stupid...and illiterate. Now, go'n and brush your shoulder off...

Jane November 5, 2008 at 3:59 PM

don't let that idiot steal your joy girl... today is the day for celebrating

Miss Mika November 5, 2008 at 4:06 PM

SHM @ the random emails. All that looks like was someone trying to get attention from you... and a strange pyscotic sort of way. You did that right thing by not responding and shaking that joker and his emails off. Yesterday was too important of a day to be affected by some ignorant nonsense.


Ms. Bar B: November 5, 2008 at 5:03 PM

Ok, yeah, you shouldn't even entertain that madness. That's that stalker shit... ya must be doing somethin' right girl, lol. Ok, joking. Just forget about dude.

Yes yes yes, I can't even get into how happy, empowered, proud, etc I am right now. This event is powerful on so many different levels that their isn't enough space to run through them all.

The F$%K it List November 5, 2008 at 5:17 PM

It really amazes me how people think they can act a damn fool just because this is cyberspace. Give me a break!

Clearly he has issues and is looking for someone who will follow up on his bull.

As for Barack I am still in awe from his speech. I cried tears of joy more than once last night. BARACK BARACK BARACK!

or as CJ says OBAMA baby!

Miss Toya November 5, 2008 at 5:28 PM

Ignorance is bliss! *hmmph*

and.... GO OBAMA!!! WE DID IT!!!

Anonymous November 5, 2008 at 7:13 PM

Girl lets just celebrate.......FUCK all else.....Im curious though....blast his ass, cos I have someone stalking me too...but he doesnt say mean things to me.

hmmm wondering if its the same guy?

Kai C. November 5, 2008 at 7:29 PM

i love your post and this dude is an asshoe. but how about Obama?

Torrance Stephens - All-Mi-T November 5, 2008 at 8:02 PM

and folk hate on me for calling a fuck boy a fuck boy
or a bich azz nigga a bich azz nigga
treat women as quenes period

i had a fuck boy try and play me sister
hold your head up
my folk wanted to slit the carotid

he closed his blog
holla at you folk we can handle this MY way

and dont let the phd fool u u know how i get down as well as mine

bich nigga holla at me folk we dont get down like that as men

OG, The Original Glamazon November 5, 2008 at 8:16 PM


Girl I am mad you entertained ANY of that foolishness. I would straight deleted all them messages after the first I wouldn't have opened e-mails with his address



-::brown sugar::- November 5, 2008 at 8:19 PM

WOW!!!! What a fool! Are you serious?!?!?

Whoever this douche is needs to get a life. how dare he try to act like he somebody and call you names like that???

GRR! I hate it when ppl try to act BOSSY over e-mail. But I agree, don't even give him the satisfaction of linking his blog, name or whatever...thats what he wants...he wants his blog click # to go up so he can actually believe in his own mind that his shit is any good. boo to him. boo to his face! Just brush it off like you said...cause NO ONE has time to be spending on any ignorant! fool like that...


Anonymous November 5, 2008 at 9:39 PM

This is the mountaintop that King was talking about...

She W0rd Hustlez November 5, 2008 at 9:52 PM

Man fuck that dude. Point blank.

She W0rd Hustlez November 5, 2008 at 9:53 PM

I'm mad my shit has to be approved now though. Ugh @ this dude!

Eb the Celeb November 5, 2008 at 10:03 PM

@kin-shar - I'm not going to give him the satisfaction but it might just be... he seemed normal to me at first too... then all of a sudden BAM... CRAZY ALERT>>> CRAZY ALERT... and its crazy because I found out today that he has spazzed on several bloggers in the past and even went around the blog world harassing people that commented on this post... he's truly a nut case

@kai - thx for the love missy! your strength inspires so many peoples... I know I dont come by your blog that much but no that you inspire me everytime I do.

@torrance - it aint that serious... I'm good... e-gangsters put absolute no fear in my heart... so calm down... we're in a time of uplifting black men even though he may be one not worthy of that honor we still must inflict peace

@OG - I'm kinda mad too... because of this post... he has emailed me over a dozen times today with craziness, posted ridiculous comments on my youtube videos... I've had to clear out my shoutbox several times from him putting ignorant ish in there, and I had to revert my comments to being moderated because he comments at least a half dozen times with crazy stuff on here today... its been the biggest head ache... but then again I'm glad I did it because I found out that he has been doing this to many women in the blog world for a while and no one ever put him out there... maybe now he will get some help.

Sha Boogie November 5, 2008 at 10:41 PM

WHy the hell is that email loser so concerned with what YOU doing?! LOSERS! I hate them..shoulda told him to get him some--business!

princessdominique November 6, 2008 at 8:28 AM

Sad thing is that people like that don't know who they are messing with until it's too late. They think that you may be like the last one but he has no idea. Sad when you need attention like that and you wake up in the morning thinking of ways to screw somebody's day up. He's probably the one who's been raped and molested. Does he even understand what a delicate subject that is. They need to confiscate his cell phone, computer and ever other electronic gadget he has. Jesus don't get me started on people like that.

cherry's kid November 6, 2008 at 8:39 AM

Eb...don't worry about don't even know him so it's cool!!!! Loved the celebration video!!!! Loved it!!!!!

Ms.Honey November 6, 2008 at 10:22 AM


Go play in rush hour traffic


G-Sweet November 6, 2008 at 3:29 PM

this day will never be forgotten!

Smarty Jones November 6, 2008 at 6:08 PM

Girl, I had no idea. You see how far behind I am without a computer? I am so ready for next week.
At any rate, in the words of the prophet Souljah Boy Tell 'em, "Yah trick Yaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhh!!!"

Eb the Celeb November 6, 2008 at 6:13 PM

@Smarty - Mad you called Souljah Boy a

Jaded November 6, 2008 at 6:35 PM

I hope my blog never becomes popular enough to warrant hate mail lol. Because honestly, that is crazy. I can't even think of anything intelligent to say's just crazy. I mean really. He's got to do better.

Anonymous November 8, 2008 at 9:06 PM

a moment noone shouldnt ever forget

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