An ode to my ex!

I got the idea from a post on Clutchmagazine.com 

Thank you for showing me what a relationship isnt suppose to be. 

Thank you for showing me what is means to be dickmotized! So that I will never let the dick hypnotize me again... unless of course its my husband.

Thank you for showing me that you werent the type of man that I deserve in my life. 

Thank you for cheating on me... because it was better that I experienced that type of drama at that time of my life, and now am drama free.

Thank you for bringing me so much pain, because some of my most endearing poetry was written from those emotions.

Thank you for teaching me that long distance relationships are a huge headache that ultimately aint worth it.

Thank you for teaching me that no matter how much you love a man, you cant change him to be the man you want him to be.

Thank you for teaching me the real reason of "letting it go."

I hate the fact that you were so bad for me that now I hold a box really tight of the type of man I will date in hopes that I will filter out the riff raff.

I hate the fact that I am so hard on guys now because I let you in easily and you hurt my heart.

I hate the fact that you got the next chick pregnant right after we ended it, but happy that it wasnt me.

I hate the fact that I still take your phonecalls even though I know I will have a headache after. 

I hate the fact that you still havent grown up, and that part of me still cares that your so immature.

I hate the fact that you will always have a special place in my heart. 


Because of you, I am a stronger woman. I know my value and I know my worth. I once thought that you completed me, and now I know that completion comes from within, and the journey is in finding someone that compliments you instead. 

6 comments

soumynona December 7, 2007 at 1:41 AM

quite deep indeed - I guess men all over the world f good ish up all the time

Ticia December 11, 2007 at 2:00 PM

Well Praise the Lord...

Know your worth :)

MysTery December 12, 2007 at 12:06 PM

Hmmmm nice. :)

Reminds me of an old post of mine...Check it out:

http://mystery2you.blogspot.com/2006/02/wounded-thoughts.html

Vixen December 17, 2007 at 1:52 AM

Wow..this is really deep. I think a letter like this sooooo therapeutic on so many levels. Love that dick-motize, gotta use that.

Ms. Lovely December 26, 2007 at 10:20 PM

It's crazy how we go through so many similar things when it comes to these mofos. I was definitely dickmatized..Now I have to force myself to work on that BlackMon post lol

Southern_Lady December 28, 2007 at 3:26 PM

That was deep. The heartbreak is inevitable. Dammit. lol. Kudos for sharing that.

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