An ode to my ex!

An ode to my ex!

Labels: My life / RBW Relationship Talk

I got the idea from a post on Clutchmagazine.com 

Thank you for showing me what a relationship isnt suppose to be. 

Thank you for showing me what is means to be dickmotized! So that I will never let the dick hypnotize me again... unless of course its my husband.

Thank you for showing me that you werent the type of man that I deserve in my life. 

Thank you for cheating on me... because it was better that I experienced that type of drama at that time of my life, and now am drama free.

Thank you for bringing me so much pain, because some of my most endearing poetry was written from those emotions.

Thank you for teaching me that long distance relationships are a huge headache that ultimately aint worth it.

Thank you for teaching me that no matter how much you love a man, you cant change him to be the man you want him to be.

Thank you for teaching me the real reason of "letting it go."

I hate the fact that you were so bad for me that now I hold a box really tight of the type of man I will date in hopes that I will filter out the riff raff.

I hate the fact that I am so hard on guys now because I let you in easily and you hurt my heart.

I hate the fact that you got the next chick pregnant right after we ended it, but happy that it wasnt me.

I hate the fact that I still take your phonecalls even though I know I will have a headache after. 

I hate the fact that you still havent grown up, and that part of me still cares that your so immature.

I hate the fact that you will always have a special place in my heart. 

Because of you, I am a stronger woman. I know my value and I know my worth. I once thought that you completed me, and now I know that completion comes from within, and the journey is in finding someone that compliments you instead.