Hot off the presses...

Sorry for all the relationship posts today. I don't know what the heck is wrong with me... still behind on the winter rendezvous so I guess that's why its on the brain. Anyway, lately been thinking about the jump-off situation between the man and woman. Men, have always loved it. The opportunity to have sex with a women where there is an understanding that there is nothing romantic involved. Nowadays women are the same way, or they try to be, or think they can handle having just a sexual relationship with a man and eventually want it to turn into something more. That is the inspiration for this piece I wrote earlier this week. Check it out!

Emotionless sex gets emotional

At one time the 3am calls made me smile to his ring
Anticipating the sexual bliss that he was going to bring

Don't you just love when you have that sexual sync with a fellow
Not wanting or needing a kiss or hug or simple hello

Just wanting to feel him deep, inside and outside I'm wet
It was perfect that we both only wanted sex when we met

That perfection was temporary, never thought I would fall for this guy
So when I approached him about wanting more, he paused & asked, "Why?"

I couldn't even get mad because it was wrong from the start
Allowing him to indulge in my goodness without having my heart

He was content with just bruising my vaginal walls
But my heart is the organ that was bruised, and he wont even take my calls

The sad thing is that if he did call me at 3am tonight
I would let him come and lay in my bed without even thinking twice

I mean I cant blame him for the fact that my intentions have changed
But it would be nice if like my feelings, his had rearranged

I hate this because now I'm just another woman who couldn't handle the physical
So even though he was the first one I fell for, I'm still seen as being typical

He doesn't even realize I'm stressing more than he is because of my ego
I cant even say it to myself; my emotionless sex got emo - 

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Erica C. December 1, 2007 at 6:26 PM


I like your spot. Thanks for stopping by and yes........Oleta is the bomb.

S.K. December 1, 2007 at 8:11 PM

How do you maintain all these blogs? I have one and I'm struggling.

Nice Spot(s)

Nitty-Gritty December 1, 2007 at 9:04 PM

Wow...I feel that this is deep and I hope you don't mind opionions, but if it were me I would re-evaluate myself although it doesn't seem so serious when reading this blog, it is because it is your thoughts and I am glad to see that even though you won't admit it to yourself, you are re-evaulating yourself "Allowing him to indulge in my goodness without having my heart"

Remember This:
1 Corinthians 6:19-20
Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your body.

Ebonne December 1, 2007 at 9:10 PM

@nitty gritty, yes of course I welcome comments and opinions... but I am not my blog. Things that pertain directly to me are placed in the my life category.. this poem was written in general about the situation and not personally about my situation; so there is nothing to admit to myself.

But thanks for the scripture... I'm sure the RBW's that are reading and can relate to the poem will need a scripture to reference as a pick me up.

Thx for reading,


1ShyLady December 2, 2007 at 10:30 PM

very deep. i can certainly relate.

Don December 4, 2007 at 2:20 PM

lol @ sk

The sad thing is that if he did call me at 3am tonight

I would let him come and lay in my bed without even thinking twice

That aint sad...that's just real

Sage December 5, 2007 at 11:46 AM

Great poem! It exudes emotion and realness.

Ebonne December 5, 2007 at 11:45 PM

@ Don... yeah I sure you think that is real Don. I'm sure you got some ladies panies all in a bunch over some emotionless sex coming over at 3am with ya magnum XL

@ sou - thanks for the kudos... still waiting to see the beautiful black man

@ sage @ 1shy... thanks girls!

Don December 6, 2007 at 8:28 AM

I use to, but now I try to be a better human being.

I do.

James Tubman December 6, 2007 at 8:34 AM

no sex is emotionless

all sex is completely emotional even if it's not good

it may make you laugh, still that's an emotion

but the only thing is you see the person merely as an object of pleasure so you can detach the emotions once the act is over

Afrodite December 10, 2007 at 4:32 PM

What a beautiful poem!

I've been there before and I have no desire to go back. I just don't get what's wrong with our genration in that being a jumpoff is acceptable.

Ms.Knowitall December 12, 2007 at 2:50 PM

Awesome! This work is so creative and timeless.

I Am Fabulous!!! Deal With It... December 19, 2007 at 9:07 AM

Love it!!! I know several folk who can benefit from this poem.

eclectik December 26, 2007 at 7:32 PM

Them damn benefits...I love them but people do catch feelins when aint nobody threw nuffin

Look at you with the freaky freaky freakyfreaky flow
control the mic like fidel Blogstro

I might have to step the dime line game up


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