I'm in love with a blogger

So last week Charles had this post talking about the kind of love he wants... I fell in love with his words... then found out he is 6'3... so its official... I am packing and moving to Virginia. He's a couple years younger than me... But women live longer anyway, so at least I know there is a better chance that we will grow old together...lol

Anyway, I hope he doesn't mind me jacking but it inspired me to jot down a couple things that represent the kind of love I want. Not nearly as endearing as his post but hopefully you will feel me just the same.

I want that kind of love...

... where I smile at just the thought of you

... where I want to sleep in your t-shirt when your not home just so I can have your scent on me

... that makes us finish each other's sentences

... where we don't even have to touch each other to orgasm

... where making each other happy is like second nature

... that makes us feel whole

... that makes us feel like we have discovered what life is really all about

... that accepts flaws and all

... where you can fart in front of the person and not even think twice about it or feel any type of embarrassment

... when simple things make any worries unimportant

...when other people smile and are envious of what we have

...where you no longer pre-meditate the next move and everything is organic

...where the games stop and you both are more real with each other than you have ever been with yourself

...that is really until death does us part


12kyle July 20, 2008 at 11:33 PM

where the games stop and you both are more real with each other than you have ever been with yourself

this is so true. who wants to play games with someone? too old for that

Pretty.Hip July 21, 2008 at 2:04 AM

I want the kind of love that both of you guys are talking about. I'll continue with the (im)patient waiting lol

sista gp July 21, 2008 at 5:19 AM

Next week Hubby and I will have been together for 14 years, so take it from me, the farting may seem cute in the beginning, but it gets old quick.

Darius T. Williams July 21, 2008 at 8:12 AM

LOL - so why do I know EXACTLY who u are talking about? I commented on that post of his.

B July 21, 2008 at 8:31 AM

Awww, I love it. Charles' post was great too. Have a wonderful upcoming week, sis!

Keisha "Kitten" Isaacs July 21, 2008 at 8:33 AM

Being able to fart in front of your love...is a must have!!...lol...Good post Sistah...Good post....I surely pray that you get all that and some!!!!

Super Dave Van Buren July 21, 2008 at 8:35 AM

where we don't even have to touch each other to orgasm

is that even possible? maybe you mean a mental orgasm.

I think were a whole generation of people who are looking for that kind of love.

Brown Girl Gumbo July 21, 2008 at 9:12 AM

Great post!! Love it and agree with all of them!! :-)

Anonymous July 21, 2008 at 9:12 AM

LOL@ him being 6'3" and that's all you needed to know! Hilarious!


Fantastic Post!

UnKnownDiva July 21, 2008 at 9:35 AM

i definitely feel u on this one

Rich July 21, 2008 at 10:27 AM

love never goes out of style.

Miss B July 21, 2008 at 10:27 AM

Nice!!! I want that too!!

Isn't Charles the best with words?!?!?!

Anonymous July 21, 2008 at 12:36 PM

This is super sweet Eb... Charles definitely be bringin it!

Opinionated Diva July 21, 2008 at 12:42 PM

I loved what Charles wrote...and I was with you until this, "where you can fart in front of the person and not even think twice about it or feel any type of embarrassment"

I do not want to smell his farts. I don't even want to smell my own.

Chris July 21, 2008 at 1:07 PM

"... that accepts flaws and all."


Monique July 21, 2008 at 1:09 PM

This reminds of the poet named Shian that performed on Def Poetry Jam talking about this kind of love. I agree with all you said and I believe it's out there too.


IntrospectiveGoddess July 21, 2008 at 1:47 PM

Love is a beautiful thing, I read Charles's post too, LOL@the farting thing..I would add we can go to the bathroom in front of each other...not that its important it just shows a level of comfort!

Keith July 21, 2008 at 1:50 PM

Hey Eb....Love this
Love U 2
the good lovin
I know is
coming your way.

Eb the Celeb July 21, 2008 at 2:19 PM

@sista gp - lol

@super dave - YES it is possible... I think... a girl can dream cant she...lol

@durtymo - ya'll know I have a height fetish... and I am NOT a fan of VA at all. the 2 speeding tickets I have gotten in my life have been in that state... I guess the state troopers aint got ish else to do.

@Miss B - charles does have a way with words...

@OD - lmao, its not about smelling them its about being that confortable with someone that you can just let it go instead of having stomach pains from holding it in like we have to do on dates.

@monique - going to check that out now

@introspective - now that is a little bit much for me... I dont think I want to be that comfortable... maybe for a quick #1 but definitely not a #2

thx keith

Nina July 21, 2008 at 2:37 PM

loves it! we should totally be chillin...I'm a BK Soldier!

TravelDiva July 21, 2008 at 4:32 PM

Preach girl. Preach!!!!!!!!!!!

Ticia July 21, 2008 at 5:35 PM

Love the list - I have my own list - I think it publishes tomorrow or sometime this week -

Kieya July 21, 2008 at 6:27 PM

love is such a beautiful thing

K@LiENTe July 21, 2008 at 6:57 PM

"where you can fart in front of the person and not even think twice about it or feel any type of embarrassment"

this made me LOL...i liked this post Eb

PrettyBlack July 21, 2008 at 7:23 PM

You will have that lady because you are special, smart, cute, and down to earth. You are a catch! And anything you pray for you will be blessed with.

I have that so I wish it for everybody. I think I've gotten too comfortable with the farting thing though...I'll have that negro sleeping on the couch some nights. But he loves me anyway! haha!

Charles July 21, 2008 at 7:30 PM

I def appreciate the shout out Eb. You're just a lil too late tho because I found someone that totally captivates me and I see her hitting each and every one of my bullet points and then some. And I definitely love your list too...

The Flyyest July 21, 2008 at 7:37 PM

yeah charles is the truth,...i loved that post!!!

girl...i need all that too!!!!

Eb the Celeb July 21, 2008 at 8:07 PM

@nina - doing a happy hour in harlem on wed @ covo tratoria... come thru

@prettyblack - LMFAO at him having to sleep on the couch... that is some serious gas...lol

@charles - damn.. all the the good and tall ones are always taken...lol

FREEDOM July 21, 2008 at 9:18 PM

Great post.

The getting what we want begins with knowing what we want.

So gurl, don't worry. That true love that you desire will manifest it self for you because you KNOW what you want!

thanx for the love. my fast is over...lol

clnmike July 22, 2008 at 1:40 AM

Lol, thats the type of love to make a man turn in his bachelor card.

ToshaRenelle July 23, 2008 at 2:28 AM

Why don't we just clone Charles!?

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