I've been tagged...

... by Kayos...


"List seven songs that you are into right now. No matter what the genre, whether they have words, or even if they're not any good, but they must be songs you're really enjoying now, shaping your spring summer. Post these instructions in your blog along with your seven songs. Then tag seven other people to see what they're listening to."

My seven songs are as follows:

  1. Rihanna "Take a Bow"
  2. Plies "Bust it baby" remix feat Ne-Yo
  3. Robin Thicke "Magic"
  4. John Legend "Green Light" feat. Andre 3000
  5. Teedra Moses "Closer"
  6. Trey Songz "Love Safari"
  7. Mario "Lay in my bed"

I'm tagging both my sisters (Ash and Kaz)... since they haven't blogged in forever. The other 5 go to:

MissChris
12Kyle
Dessex
I.cant.complain
G-Sweet

I had to post a bonus song with this post to. CLNMike commented a little while ago, not understanding what the inbetween of a cut buddy and boyfriend was. Sometimes its hard to find the middle ground from a song that is coming from a female perspective since I posted a teedra moses song with the post, but Mario has a joint that may be able to help you relate. First off, if you slept on Mario's last album "Go" then you are playing yourself. It is the truth. I have had this joint on repeat for a while so here is No Definition with the lyrics.
No Definition - Mario
I'm not your man, we're more than friends
We make love but I don't call you my lover
I do for you, you do for me
It works because we don't smother each other
It's short and sweet the time we spent
We can't take a second of it for granted...No
I barely understand it, Not the way I planned it
Why can't it just be what it is?

What's in a name if we got what we need
Ain't nobody comin' between us but we
Everything I told you about my love I mean
I said everything that I said I mean

Actions speak louder than words
(baby don't I) treat you the way you deserve
We don't need we don't need definition
We don't need we don't need definition
What I feel is real and if you look that up
Want half of the world to see a picture of us?
We don't need we don't need definition
We don't need we don't need definition (about our love)

We shop, we dine, spend cuddle time
Come over but only on invitation
Not now in time we're border line
I like you but don't quit your occupation
My heart my ace but just in case
Let's stay open to other situations
Why tell you we gone be more, Keep you on a leash for
I don't wanna string you along girl

What's in a name if we got what we need
Ain't nobody comin' between us but we
Everything I told you about my love I mean
I said everything that I said I mean

Actions speak louder than words
(baby don't I) treat you the way you deserve
We don't need we don't need definition
We don't need we don't need definition
What I feel is real and if you look that up
Want half of the world to see a picture of us?
We don't need we don't need definition
We don't need we don't need definition (about our love)

Even though we used to the titles and getting rings but
Maybe this time we should just leave this one alone cuz
If its working for us Then it's working for us
Don't go messin' it up don't go messin' it up... baby
Even though we used to the titles and getting rings but
Maybe this time we should just leave this one alone cuz
If its working for us Then it's working for us
Don't go messin' it up don't go messin' it up...baby

Actions speak louder than words
(baby don't I) treat you the way you deserve
We don't need we don't need definition
We don't need we don't need definition
What I feel is real and if you look that up
Want half of the world to see a picture of us?
We don't need we don't need definition
We don't need we don't need definition (about our love)

Actions speak louder than words
(baby don't I) treat you the way you deserve
We don't need we don't need definition
We don't need we don't need definition
What I feel is real and if you look that up
Want half of the world to see a picture of us?
We don't need we don't need definition
We don't need we don't need definition (about our love)

19 comments

Lina June 30, 2008 at 9:42 AM

Can I just say that Green Light is the shit. I adore that song.

Rihanna makes me wanna puke...and I hate that someone else could have done that song so much justice...alas, such is the way of the world.

I love Teedra.

Smarty Jones June 30, 2008 at 10:10 AM

You bum! I thought you didn't do that tagging -ish.
Anyway, your list is making me feel a little old. I don't do "new" music. The only two songs I've heard on this list is "Take a Bow" and "Bust It Baby."
I've heard the first one because BET has it on a loop and I got bored one day last week and decided to watch the madness that is BET.
And I heard Plies (could he not come up with another name?) because my nieces and nephews were singing that song a while back and I fussed out my brother and sister for letting them listen to that mess!

Eb the Celeb June 30, 2008 at 10:17 AM

@ Smarty - hahahaha.. I dont do them long drawn out tedious tags... this took 5 min to do so I was cool with participating... Plus I am spending time with fam so havent had time to even fathom a post so it came in due time.

and you arent old... the robin thicke and the john legend are brand new... literally just started impacting in the last 2 weeks... both are bangers though so you will hear them soon...

and you are sleeping if you havent heard that Mario joint... that is a banger... also on the Go! album

OG, The Original Glamazon June 30, 2008 at 11:35 AM

Can I just say that I and TOM A (The Obj of My Affections) just had a conversation like this. Just basically we are comfortable with out labels and we know what we got. *lol*

I'm headed to iTunes right now to buy Go!! *lol*

-OG

Eb the Celeb June 30, 2008 at 11:38 AM

@OG - your going to love it... he even did a remake of keith sweat's right or wrong... and killed it!

Thoughts of a Southern gal June 30, 2008 at 11:50 AM

I'm not a Rihanna fan but I love that song. When I first heard it, I knew NeYo wrote it.

I hate Bust it Baby.

Loving Robin Thicke's new song.

Haven't heard "Green Light" yet. Need to look that up. Have to look up Teedra Moses song too.

Loving Trey Songz. His cd is being slept on too. First cd was good too.

Loving Mario "Go" cd. Yes people are sleeping on his cd. I've been missing male R&B singers. Trey, Mario, NeYo, J Holiday, Tank, Jaheim all had good cds to come out last year and this year.

I've been in "No Definition" relationships before. Actually, I'm looking for one now. For some reason, I'm going across dudes who say they are looking to get into relationships. What's up with that? lol

Pretty.Hip June 30, 2008 at 12:09 PM

Mario's album was so good!

dessex June 30, 2008 at 12:54 PM

man for a min. i couldn't even get to page...it kept saying error or something...anyway. I will complete the tag when later on tonight.

kayellejaye June 30, 2008 at 1:20 PM

I had 'No Definition' on repeat too for the longest time. I love that song. It's the perfect example.

'Take a Bow' really hurt my ears when I first heard it. If it wasn't for Ne-yo's writing that song would not have made it on air.

I really really tried hard to not like that damn 'Bust it Baby' song. I really did. That damn Ne-yo again.

Monique June 30, 2008 at 4:00 PM

DAmn, Eb, get out my head with those Mario lyrics. That ish is so on point.

clnmike June 30, 2008 at 7:50 PM

Lol, that is nothing but a cut buddy, all that extra is just icing on the cake so people dont feel guilty about what they are doing.

The F$%K it List June 30, 2008 at 9:20 PM

You put me on to Green Light (from your other blog), MY two favorite artist John Legend and Andre 3000.

I don't like Rihanna's music but something about the video for Take a bow was on point, I have to give it to Neyo.

and what the what is plies? Am I really that out of it JEEZ

Ms. Behaving--> July 1, 2008 at 9:06 AM

At one point, I didn't care too much for Rihanna's music but "Take a Bow"...I love that joint!

Started out hatin' "Bust it baby" but its grown on me now [thanks to my teenagers] LOL

ms.uncensored July 1, 2008 at 11:35 AM

i love take a bow.

i haven't heard some of these songs but i love the artists. its time to download. lol

TravelDiva July 1, 2008 at 11:39 AM

I am enjoying that Magic song. It sounds like a theme song from something in the 70s. But it's hot.

Blah Blah Blah July 1, 2008 at 1:25 PM

I may like the music to this song..but I don't like the words.

Seems as if we as a society have given up on commitment, cherishing your worth and being ok with saying you want more than just a fuck...a friend...with no definition. At some point, doesn't emotion get involved...and by that shouldn't a definition be talked about because wandering from this chick to that chick and that dick to the next dick...doesn't that become unfulfilling and sort of empty and make you think that you are lonelier with your "non-definition." And that line...let's stay open to other situations...the hell is that?! As if I am not good enough for a definiton but good enough to spend time with untl the next best things comes around???
Fuck that...I'm putting some sort of definition on what the hell we doing muthafucka. We gotta be accountable for who we give ourselves to and why...and if it's just because you don't want to disturb the balance because she/he may not be ready...you are selling yourself short. Unless...you are ok fucking for fuck sake....

*whew, went on a tangent there...lol And by no means am I saying I ain't fucked for fuck sake...'cause sometimes...for goodness sake...I may need a fuck every now and then. All I am saying is that songs like this make me sad for the future of commitment and relationships*

Eb the Celeb July 1, 2008 at 3:06 PM

I feel you blah... its not a forever thing... and its not a thing where if I meet someone where there's no definition and I want there to be one that I will just be complacent with their not being one and settle. I'm not that chick... this is just what I want right now. I do want a relationship one day... just not this summer...

I just really want more than a cut buddy but less than a boyfriend... and until I figure out a name for it... we gonna run with the no definition title...

Epsilonicus July 1, 2008 at 4:51 PM

That Mario song is the truth!! I am going to have to cop that album. I slept on it!!

Robin Thicke - You cannot go wrong there!!

misschriss July 2, 2008 at 9:18 PM

Thanks for tagging me lol

Here ya go...http://misschriss.wordpress.com/2008/07/02/eb-the-celeb-tagged-me/

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