FACT or FICTION friday

hey peoples,

yeah I know its been a minute since I hit you with one of these joints... but its here... ENJOY!

I'm going to name this one Valentines Infidelity

Me and my boyfriend live together. Both in our college city although he's no longer in school. Problems arise back home with his mom so he has to move 8 hours away to help her take care of some things. I am stuck with just work study to pay my bills now, he had taken care of most of that stuff and an apartment I couldn't afford by myself. Luckily an associate of ours had an extra room he was renting out for cheap. It was perfect timing. Someone I had already been acquainted with (he had actually tried to holla at me the year before), but I had a boyfriend so it never went anywhere.

We all know its trouble moving in with someone that your attracted to. We all feel like we can handle it and that nothing will happen, you automatically go to being like a brother since we are roommates now right? I always thought you were cute but I always had a man, and then you and my man became associates so you were definitely off limits right?

Right! We had been roommates for almost 6 months and never even had the inkling to cross the line. I mean there was mild flirting, letting him know he was looking fly when he was about to go out, and him expressing how good certain jeans looked on my ass but nothing that would linger. We became really good friends. I talked to him about how I missed my boyfriend so, and knowing the type of dude my boyfriend was he always asked if I felt he was being faithful to me. I had no reason to think he wasn't. We had made several visits to each other in those past 6 months and I personally felt the space was well needed and in 3 months times I would be graduating and moving to the city he was in anyway... so the distance was temporary.

But Valentines was on the horizon. Since I had just visited him for Christmas it was his turn to come down and see me for Valentines. Plans were all set, then the week before something comes up and he can't come down. I was really bummed. I wanted to see my boo.. I mean it was Valentines Day, but ish happens. So he called me early in the day to give me my love on the lovers day. Later on that night my phone rings and its him, I answer and hear his conversation with a chick. They must be in his car and he must have called me by mistake.

Him : I got something special planned
Her : I am so happy I came up here to see you
Him : I am too
Her : So where are we going and don't play
Him : You'll see when we get there

Phone goes dead! I am pissed. Beyond pissed. I mean he didn't come see me because some chick was coming to see him. I couldn't believe it. The first time I cried over anything dealing with a man. But it wasn't sad tears, it was mad, I am going to kill him, if I had gas money I would drive 8 hours to do it kinda mad. My roommate hears me crying in my room and asked if I am alright. I yell yeah but he walks in anyway. What's going on? Him knowing I'm not the type of chick that cries too much he is really concerned. I tell him of my boyfriends infidelities and although he knew it, he didn't say he told me so.

As I lay on my back face in pillow he begins to massage my shoulders. Then down to my back, trying to get me to relax since I am crying so hard I am starting to have those body convulsions. The tension starts to leave my body and he lifts my shirt and kisses my back so softly. My tears still flowing, my brain all scattered, I didn't even have the strength to think about what was going on to explain to him my discomfort. He assumes that I am OK with his advances and proceeds to pull my pants down. My body is completely numb and limp and I couldn't stop him if I wanted to. He immediately puts his face between my thighs and as soon as his tongue lushes at lady c my tears cease to fall. A million thoughts running threw my head about how wrong this was but I couldn't stop him. 10 minutes later I belt out a sound of exstacy which gives him the notion that he should do it right. He flips me over so that he can really put his face in it and taste all of me. I still remember what it felt like rubbing those waves on his head as my juices decorated his lips like gloss.

He looks up at me and asked if I really wanted to do this. I never answered. I grabbed a condom from my headboard stash and handed it over to him. Since he wasn't the biggest cat on the block the entire time I was thinking what the hell am I doing. This isn't me. I am not the type of chick to do what you did to me. So what he is cheating right now and lied to me. Why am I sleeping with my roommate? Shame how only the fact that it wasn't good made these thoughts race threw my mind. Luckily it didn't last too long and he went back to his room. I immediately jumped in the shower and cried a river in there for the 30 minutes it took for the hot water to stop working. What had I done? I still loved my boyfriend. At that moment he was still my boyfriend. We had been threw so much and although we both made mistakes I promised that I would not be the one who made anymore and I failed.



Monique June 6, 2008 at 6:41 PM

Fact. I know people who have actually gone through something like this.

E. Christian Wallace June 6, 2008 at 6:57 PM

Shoot, I don't know on this one. I lean towards fact though.

Ms. Jones June 6, 2008 at 6:58 PM

It sounds like a fact and like something that could actually happen but the details and timing flow waayy too well so I am going to have to say FICTION!

E. Christian Wallace June 6, 2008 at 7:03 PM

It did have a nice flow to it...great, now I'm considering changing my vote.

Nah, I'll stick with my first choice.

Skoolboi Krush June 6, 2008 at 7:09 PM

I'm gonna say fiction. I don't think you would roll like that.

K@LiENTe June 6, 2008 at 7:16 PM

FACT...dayum that's fukked up.

And Skoolboi, it doesn't have to be EB:)

Tony OH June 6, 2008 at 8:06 PM

True Story...to real...way to real!

Homer is My Co-pilot June 6, 2008 at 10:10 PM

I'm going with Fiction, I did remember the rule that it doesn't have to be about you. A 30 min shower after sex could not have made dude feel good about his performance... lol.

Smarty Jones June 6, 2008 at 10:17 PM

I believe it. Crap happens. You probably wouldn't have done it if the brotha knew how to use his key lock. Damn shame, but I guess that's how the cookie crumbles.

Pajnstl June 6, 2008 at 10:41 PM

I gottago Fact on this one.... I've known this to happen

one soulful negro. June 6, 2008 at 10:43 PM

apart of me believes it another part doesn't.
if it is true that is a damn shame the sex was that bad.

if not...GREAT STORY!

Vixenlibra: myspace.com/vixenlibra June 6, 2008 at 10:56 PM

THis is supposed to be your story right? I'm gonna say FICTION! Maybe its fact for some other chick but your story? Um I just don't see it happening like that from what I read on your blogs.

Lovebabz June 6, 2008 at 11:35 PM

Regaardless if it's Fact or fiction it ought to be cross posted at http"//pchats.blogspot.com

Love you EB! Now don't forget Pchats!

MsPuddin June 7, 2008 at 12:55 AM

I just wanted to say i love love love the eb the celeb shot on top. get it girrrrl...

Anonymous June 7, 2008 at 1:32 AM

I call B to the S EB! lol

Anonymous June 7, 2008 at 8:45 AM

I think its fiction.

I found out my ex (america's dumbest cheater) lied to me this way tooo having some chick in my car. He had a headset for his cell phone and I called him one time when he took too long coming back from "the store". We were finishing up talking and I didn't hang up the phone I just muted it. I dont know what made me do that. Must have been God telling me "chile it is time for you to get out of this relationship and leave this bumm once and for all" Well anyways he didn't hang up his cell and I heard a chick talking in the background. He claims he was just giving her a ride home. May have been...but that was the straw that broke the camels back for me. Singing R.Kelly "when a woman's fed up.....there ain't nothing you can do about it"

Ms. Behaving--> June 7, 2008 at 10:59 AM

Hmmm...I dunno Eb...
Something tells me this one is fact!

Seven June 7, 2008 at 12:37 PM

I say fiction on this one. It's a little too out of character, Then again we all have our slip ups. Still sticking with fiction though

Blah Blah Blah June 7, 2008 at 12:43 PM


Actually, it all sounds believable...EXCEPT the part of having random due who is attracted to you move in while you have a man.

Then again, there are woman out there that would do that.

Chris June 7, 2008 at 3:53 PM

Fiction because you KNOW you would've stopped dude if he wasn't packing.

The Addict June 7, 2008 at 5:55 PM

Wow...could be either. Since this is the first post of yours I've read I'm on the fence.

I felt you on both sides; he was wrong, but you know two wrongs don't make a right. At the same time you were looking forward to seeing him and then the wrench got thrown in your plans. That's killer.

What is fact is that you had been faithful until this moment...and that speaks to me so I'll go with fiction. Hope it all works out either way...

Be well sister!

E. Christian Wallace June 7, 2008 at 6:23 PM

Ok, I need someone to help me out.

Does the story have to always involve Eb, or could she be telling the fact or fiction story of another person?

(¯`·._.·[***Fresh&Fab***]·._.·´¯) June 7, 2008 at 7:13 PM

hmmm, ild say fact, because it sounds very realistic, at any part did i feel it was unrealistic... Fact

Eb the Celeb June 7, 2008 at 7:36 PM

@ e christian wallace - yes it can be someone else's fact or fiction in the reveal I will tell whether or not is was fact or fiction and if it was mine so when responding please tell whether or not you feel its my fact, someone's else fact, or completely fiction

E. Christian Wallace June 7, 2008 at 7:42 PM

Ahh ok, so now I have a 67% chance of being wrong instead of just 50.

I'll say it's someone else's fact.

Nique June 7, 2008 at 7:44 PM

girl how am i supposed to know you tell me. i am going to post harmonic dreams for you because you asked me to come back so look out for it but you don't seem like the type to cry over anything though

SistaSocialite June 7, 2008 at 8:16 PM

WOWOW... I dunno about this one. It's gotta be fiction. In my opinion... I wouldn't have gone through with it if he was lacking... I'm just saying LOL. No,but seriously, I'm in a bind. I hope it's fiction :(

Mel June 7, 2008 at 11:58 PM

I'm leaning towards fact.

And yes I watch wrestling! :)

she so foxxy! June 8, 2008 at 12:13 AM

man, this is tough.. the story is not hard to believe at all, and i'm sure it happens more often than we'd like to think.. but i'mma go with this story being FICTION. tell us!! haha.

G-Sweet June 8, 2008 at 1:44 AM

Good post... I've missing "F or F" for a while now...

Anywho... I'm gonna say... the story is fiction... because I find it hard to believe that even tho she was in love she didn't vocally say not 1 thing at the sex attempt when he tried to take the pants off...

I'm also gonna say that... this is definately not EB's story... so FICTION again

And just because I'm feelin lucky... I'll take it a step further and say whoever story it is, was true up until the phone call incident... I believe any woman would have called the boyfriends cell phone back!

U can tell me I'm right later EB...lmao!

RealHustla June 8, 2008 at 7:45 AM

Fact, because this story made me so sad as I was reading it.

Keli June 8, 2008 at 4:32 PM

I say fiction...

although it seemed real, it just seemed a bit too real...and although we sometimes act out through the hurt, I have been so mad to the point of tears, and the last thing I want is some dude trying to feel me up. He might end up with a black eye his damn self...and if it were bad, and you were already angry, you probably would have told ol boy to get his isty bitsy weenie having azz up...or maybe that's just me...

sista gp June 8, 2008 at 5:08 PM

Fiction...if roomy was really your friend, he would not have taken advantage of you at your moment of weakness and would not have left you.

Eb the Celeb June 8, 2008 at 8:29 PM

@nique & she so foxxy- I will reveal on monday morn

Ticia June 8, 2008 at 9:32 PM

Ummm... fiction -

B/c if it was me-- I would have been on my way to see him and his new lady friend!

mzvirgo June 8, 2008 at 10:29 PM

I think it's fiction.....it sounds like some Zane stuff, getting some revenge dick.

I keep picturing that Chris Rock special "Bring the Pain" where he talks about having a male friend, because you just may never know and he ends up being the "dick in the glass", because in case of emergency......

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