Thank you Mr. Nonono for blowing my back ooooouuuttttt!

Well not exactly... my back wasn't blown out but it was pretty good last night. For those that don't know... Mr. Nonono is the investment baker cutie that has been my booty call for the past four years, we actually hang out outside the bedroom and are actually really good friends. Some people would consider him the perfect guy and that we should date but I like things the way they are. He has been stressed, he works for one of those companies in turmoil right now, has lost a lot of money and his safenet (whatever that is, he was talking and I was just listening), and may lose his job soon... so since he has been stressed lately and so have I, we made plans earlier this week to get up on Friday so we could release some of it together. Weird though, he called a couple hours before to make sure we were still on and out of the blue asks me if I like it when we have sex. The mess took me completely off guard. I mean I have never had a man who I wasn't seriously involved with really ask me and sincerely wanted to have a real conversation about it. I knew he was serious too even though I brushed it off because I am so used to dudes just asking to boost their own ego and not genuinely wanting to know what I like. It was weird hearing him, a man that knows he has things going for him, and is usually cocky in a cute way, come off insecure. I was really taken back. Either way, the loving was good!

So since I'm feeling tingly all over I figured I'd make up my own little sex meme

1 person you wish you never gave it to

2 kinky fetishes

3 places you've had sex outside your bedroom

4 favorite positions

5 cities you've had sex in

Answer the meme in the comments if you dare.

Here are my answers:

1. The dude who was my first... wont put his name down because its a pretty unique one so i'll just call him D.

2. I don't have any "kinky" fetishes per se, but I love fruit so if you can't work that in there some how then go for it, and I love to be blindfolded... something about not knowing what's going to happen next takes me there quicker

3. Shower, Car, and on a cruise ship (I know, not too exciting huh)

4. Pick me up, amazing butterfly, tight squeeze, and drive thru (no i didn't know the names of these I had to look them up... I have a book but if you are stuck you can go here) and a little TMI but while looking them up I found some others I have to

5. New York, NY; Rochester, NY; Charlotte, NC; Greensboro, NC; Jersey City, NJ


MzInspiredMind81 October 25, 2008 at 10:00 PM

1 My son's father..nuff said

2 being blindfolded and the use of toys

3 on the hood of my car, shower, and the mens bathroom @ a bar

4 riding him, reverse cowboy, from the back, and on my side(not in that order)

5 Washington DC, Miami FL, Laurel MD, Dayton OH, Columbus Oh

love&nappyness October 25, 2008 at 10:11 PM

dag girl u gettin all the goodies...

1 person you wish you never gave it to

ha! a few :X

2 kinky fetishes

love to get my ass eaten...absolutely LOVE IT, toes sucked too! girllllllll!!

3 places you've had sex outside your bedroom

no wild places yet! suprisingly. we have a full length mirror in our living room though...that was fun

4 favorite positions

riding backwards, leaning backwards

5 cities you've had sex in
Washington, DC
San Francisco
"hooked up" - no sex in
Negril, Jamaica!

love&nappyness October 25, 2008 at 10:12 PM

sooo i def didnt follow directions. got too excited when i saw it wa a sex survey i guess. LOL!

Gorgeous Geek October 25, 2008 at 10:41 PM

1 a virgin *yawns*

2 idk i dont think i have any

3 Car (i'm boring i know)

4 Spooning! Hands down

5 Charlotte, Raleigh, Durham, Salisbury, Gastonia... NC

Kryssy October 25, 2008 at 11:05 PM

*high five for the post* LOL
(I'm not gonna say that I'm jealous... but you know I am!)

1 person you wish you never gave it to:
my ex Lemonyae... he was a cheater. enough said. lol

2 kinky fetishes:
I like to be choked. Not hard... but put your hands around my neck... (yessssssss... lol)

3 places you've had sex outside your bedroom:
Car-inside & on the hood... living room, bathroom-counter & tub

4 favorite positions: Doggie style.

5 cities you've had sex in:
Washington D.C./MD area, Dallas/Ft. Worth Area, Atlanta

Skoolboi Krush October 25, 2008 at 11:36 PM

1. Don't regret any of them. It was right at the time.

2. I can't claim any kinky stuff...but I do like to choke a chick and I'm an oral fiend.

3. In the car, At a park, Football stadium, shower, doorway....

4. Doggie-style, woman on top, and good ole missionary

5. Seattle, Atlanta, Jacksonville, Detroit, and Birmingham.

Jada October 25, 2008 at 11:46 PM

1. Magneto

2. None I've discovered yet

3. Bus

4. Missionary, Doggy, On Top

5. G-ville, NC, Miami FL, Myrtle Beach SC, Oveido FL, Chapel Hill NC

Anonymous October 25, 2008 at 11:53 PM

1: My ex, he was a compulsive liar

2: None

3: Car

4: Doggy, on top, Missionary

5: Gulf Shores, Al; Biloxi, MS

Tee aka The Diva's Thoughts October 26, 2008 at 12:41 AM

I have to think about this and come back to give an answer. It's been way too long. lol

Anonymous October 26, 2008 at 12:54 AM

1. Eric...asshole
2. I love being blindfolded....and tied down
3. top of the washing
4. 69...doggy style...and deep impact aka 'the deep one'
5.Chicago, Atlanta, Miami, Nashville, and some random place in't remember @ the moment

Anonymous October 26, 2008 at 1:06 AM

1...this guy who had jacked up feet. Ugh. I know I sound like Marcus Graham but it's the truth. I think back to that time and all I can see is those crusty big toes that needed the toenails cut off. :shudders:

2...kisses on the back of the neck & having my fingers sucked

3...Bathroom counter, backyard against the house, Car

4...anyone with a penis involved, lol. From the back is a guaranteed 'O'

5...Chicago, IL; Southfield, MI; Detroit, MI; Bakersfield, CA; Las Vegas, NV

Anonymous October 26, 2008 at 1:26 AM

Mr.Nonono <--- Great Name!

..about him carrying about what you liked...that's interesting considering most men's take on it..

As far as the list...I'ma have to work up to that..LOL!

Complicated Melody October 26, 2008 at 1:56 AM

1. Hmm…I don’t have any regrets on my list.

2. Aggressive hair pulling and anal play

3. Office, parking deck, rooftop, beach ...oh wait u said 3 huh?

4. Doggy (standing), pirates bounty, Spoon, lotus

5. Miami, Orlando, Atlanta, Athens, Hilton Head

Hope you’re having a great weekend :)

Keith October 26, 2008 at 3:10 AM

Lol, you have the greatest posts

1. Don't really regret any of them,
it was all least that part of the relationships.

2. No kinky fetishes...

3. Everybody's had sex in their car, the shower, outside of a church (long story..I may blog about it one day..lolol)
bathroom of a bar, shower at Gym.

4.woman on top, doggie style, picking the woman up and entering while standing..(I'm six two, 220's great fun for me-lol)

5.Philadelphia PA, Shippensburg,PA
,London, UK, New York City, Rhein
Mein, Germany, San-Antonio,Texas,

Phew that was a lot of TMI.

The Flyyest October 26, 2008 at 3:24 AM

1....I got a few of them...T many to put 

2....all my kinky fetishes I already done the car(everywhere)...outside...on my bd moms bathroom floor... the water

4...everytime I go outta town..hahahahhahah

clnmike October 26, 2008 at 7:01 AM

1- My first

2- None

3- Gas Station, car, movie theater, backyard, and other places.

4- Misionary

5- New York,Ny; Atlanta, Gsa; Newark, NJ; Santo Domingo, DR; Miami, Fl.

Anonymous October 26, 2008 at 9:13 AM

1 person you wish you never gave it to: GUY #2. I REALLY WASN'T READY AT THE TIME AND I PAID FOR IT DEARLY.

2 kinky fetishes: HMMM...I'D HAVE TO SAY TALKING.

3 places you've had sex outside your bedroom: CAR, MY MOM'S DINING ROOM TABLE, A PARK IN CHICAGO, ON THE BEACH IN MIAMI


5 cities you've had sex in: CLEVELAND, OH; DAYTON, OH; CHICAGO, IL; MIAMI, FL; AKRON, OH

Anonymous October 26, 2008 at 11:40 AM

1 person you wish you never gave it to:


2 kinky fetishes:


3 places you've had sex outside your bedroom:

Central Park, Bacardi Rum Distillery in Puerto rico

4 favorite positions

all of them on repeat

5 cities you've had sex in

DC, Hoboken, NYC, Honolulu, Columbia, Baltimore, San Diego, San Juan, Hillside, damn..too many to list

Ms. Minnie October 26, 2008 at 12:12 PM

Well Eb, I think I'm the only virgin in your blog, but I'll answer these questions!

If I were to have sex....

1. My Sexy neighbor, girlll he is soo sexy

2.I've always wondered what it would feel like to be tied up

3.I would like to do it in the movie

4.I'll be open to any position

5. Miami! On the beach!

Ms. Minnie October 26, 2008 at 12:16 PM

Oh I just realized the first question!

I can't really answer that one...just ignore what I put

nikki October 26, 2008 at 12:41 PM

1. my first. he raped me. 'nuff said.
2. blindfolds, bondage, tossing the salad
3. movie theatre, raquetball court, unisex bathroom at workplace
4. doggie, cowgirl, spooning,
5. atlanta, tallahassee, seattle, las vegas, orlando

Chris October 26, 2008 at 12:47 PM

Nine months and counting over ain't right Eb, but since I'm feeling bold and amorous, I'll drop some answers.

1) Out of the women I got down with, I think one, Pillow Queen Krystal, is the one I would strike from the record books if I could. Lazy women = bad sex.

2) This is lame on the kink scale, but I'm a sucker for a woman with some pretty ass toes. No seriously, I will suck on them.

3) Hotel room, behind a KMart on an air conditioning unit, on the floor of a friend's uncle's house.

4) My self esteem just allowed me to get into doggystyle recently, and there is nothing like hitting a woman from the back...*starts cold shower*

5) Wilmington, DE, Dover, DE, Waldorf, MD, Great Mills, MD and Mechanicsville, MD

Saule Wright October 26, 2008 at 3:12 PM

1 ANYONE before my wife

2 a little teeth on the rod aint so bad

3 park, car, living room

4 let's ride...

5. I move too much, let's just say states, MO, AZ, MD, GA, TX, DC, FL

Eb the Celeb October 26, 2008 at 4:00 PM

@love&nappyness - dont worry about it... a lot of these folk didnt follow the its all good!

@gorgeous geek - you've hit all the carolina spots I I only got 3 NC cities under my belt

@kryssy- just doggie style huh? lol, where are the other 3?

@krush - i should have known a freaky post would bring a comment out of

@aj brown - on top of the washing machine... ha... that had to be sexy if it was running...hehehe

@b-more BAP - lol... no need to be bashful over here at RBW... we're all family

@keith- you dead wrong for outside of church

@flyyyest - girl I said fetishes, not fantasies... fetishes are things that you've done and liked.. now you gotta come back and answer the question

@clnmike - fo real... just plain ol missionary huh?

@[fung'ke][blak][chik]- I'm going to have to look up that fetish... its sounds very interesting

@ms minnie - girl good for you... I did not know... and sometimes wish I could go back to where you are... trust girl... stay that way as long as you can because penis is the root of all

@nikki - I'm really sorry to hear about that...

@Chris - Kmart though? I mean I can see Walmart but

@saule - heeeyyy how the heck r ya... I got lurkers coming out in this post so welcome and thx for commenting

Beautifully.Conjured.Up October 26, 2008 at 4:27 PM

Well Eb, if you must know:

1. A dude with the initials SJN...he was HORRIBLE. I felt cheap afterwards.

2. I have an oral fixation with...let's just say, I like to lick.

3. Movie theatre, car (inside and on the car), an open field, shower, at work in the office, dorm, kitchen, closet...I think that's it.

4. Doggy, spooning from the side, Me on top, and this Kama Sutra position that I can't remember the name, but I remember the position...requires flexibility.

5. Atlanta, Charlotte, and Chattanooga.

The Black Kat October 26, 2008 at 6:04 PM

1.) My first. Negro got the goods & was like... "Oh btw... I should probably let you know my ex is 2 1/2 months pregnant." Yeah... Bastard.

2.) Um... I'm a scorpio. Nuff said.

3.) Baseball dugout, front porch, car...

4.) On my back... w/ my feet by my ears. *smh*

5.) Denver, CO; Raleigh, NC; Atlanta, GA; Los Angeles, CA; Norman, OK

Lina October 26, 2008 at 7:02 PM

this fool named Dre...couldn't find the right hole....foolish.

choking and exhibition

baseball dugout, my backyard, the truck of my car.

Iont know bout a book but I like the three point stance, riding, laying flat on my stomach, and the t-squared position.

I seem to never have sex outside of the metro Atlanta area...not really sure why.

The F$%K it List October 26, 2008 at 9:41 PM

Well ain't this quite the meme. I shall play along.

1 No answer for that one, been with the same guy for 17 years.

2. I don't have any kinky fetishes but I've enjoyed having ice incorporated. Lovely in the summer.

3.Car, elevator (long story), parking garage before checking into hotel, beach, my mom's front porch during a block party (ah that was a good time)

4. I'm all about flexibility so I if I can throw in a Yoga move here and there I'm good. Mr F is a fan of girl on top (lazy ass, heheh)

5 Roanoke VA, Charleston SC, New York NY, Philadelphia PA, Washington DC, Baltimore MD, Puerto Plata DR, Cancun Mexico. ok that's enough I could go on with this one....

Anonymous October 26, 2008 at 10:47 PM

1. Dude with initials CH.

2. Tying the dude down and using ice.

3. In the backyard while a party was going on in the inside of the house.

4. Riding his face, doggystyle, me on top

5.only cities in Arkansas

Ms. Bar B: October 27, 2008 at 12:52 AM

1. This lil' young thundercat who talked a good game over the phone, but definitely needed some more schooling.

2. I don't really think I have any real fetishes... well, maybe with "juices" =)

3. Living room, car, and park

4. Doggy, me on top and whatever else gets the job done at the time

5. Many cities around the Bay Area, CA.

suga October 27, 2008 at 4:03 AM

This was great. Why the hell didn't I know that you had a blog other than your one on music? Silly me.

Pajnstl October 27, 2008 at 7:17 AM

Whoohoo for good sex
1. No regrets they were all really good lovers.
2. I like to be bitten, exhibitionism
3. Car, park, parking garage, bathroom, pool hall... lol what can I say, when the urge strikes.
4. Fav is from the back
5. New orleans, houston, louisville, stl, miami,

Miss Mahogany October 27, 2008 at 9:12 AM

LOL ya know I actually came back (after commenting earlier) just to see what everyone else said...good post. Oh well so much for procrastinating I should do some REAL work now. LOL

cherry's kid October 27, 2008 at 9:20 AM

1. My first...ill!!! Why!!! LMAO

2. Choking...anal [fingers only]

3. Side of a house, car, park bench, kitchen, living room

4. Me on top, missionary, doggy, sitting on his face

5. Miami, NYC [Bronx], Jersey City, LA, Atl, Long Island [somewhere lol], all over Jersey, Charlotte, Gainesville [Florida]

Sweet KeiKei October 27, 2008 at 9:22 AM

ummmmmm jersey city, new jersey??? let me find out u been gettin it in in my town. lol

Anonymous October 27, 2008 at 10:17 AM

WOW @ this post....

the.socialight October 27, 2008 at 10:31 AM

yall some freaks! lol

hmmm..this stalker type joint. lol

kinky fetishes? well, anything edible in the bedroom, sauces, syrups, creams, will be of the essence.

beach, car, balcony...

doggy, her back up against the wall, spoon, missionary, girl on top.

Hampton,VA; Washington, DC; Charlotte,NC; Houston, TX; Atlanta, GA

MP October 27, 2008 at 11:26 AM

i want my back blown out! i need to be a full bodied porn star in somebody's bedroom right now!

Oh and I used to love that website. i found it last year and i fount the inverted missionary which makes me feel like spider woman!

South Loop Social Light October 27, 2008 at 1:03 PM

What a fun way to get my day started!

1. Mmm...I'm sure there's at least 1 or 2...or 3 people I could think of. lol.

2. Biting, Choking, pain....I guess things that are S & M...I have a soft spot for that stuff.

3. In the alley on the side of an apt bldg, hood of a car in a parking lot, In the driveway...on the ground!

4. I'd have to go to the site and look up the names...

5. I have my places I'd love to ad on the list - - Paris, Fiji, and Rome.

ShellyShell October 27, 2008 at 1:04 PM

I'm just seeing this one. I didn't check blogs all weekend!

1.Initials know who you are Plainfield, NJ! The wackest d*ck ever!

2.Ice,fruit,whip cream,champangne and candle wax! Ok that's enough!

3.In the yard of the Moslem mosque(I know horrible),baseball dugout,my parents deck, on the stairs

4.Getting picked up and slammed against the wall(ok not slammed but you know)reverse cowgirl and laying on your stomach with your hands on the floor! Ok I gotta stop I'm at work!

5.Washington,DC Brooklyn, NY Raleigh,NC Cabo San Lucas, MX Ochos Rios, Jamaica, Buffalo, NY

Keith October 27, 2008 at 2:15 PM

@-EB- It wasn't the church I go to!

kayellejaye October 27, 2008 at 3:26 PM

1...i don't really regret any, but i'll just say brian.

2...oral, toys...

3...his job, laundry room, a bar after everyone left...

4...missionary, doggy, & i don't know the name of the other 2 and i won't be clicking that link while i'm at work!

5...various cities in the baltimore/dc/va area, atlantic city, philly.

Nina October 27, 2008 at 4:21 PM

gonna post this on my blog...because i wanna know! lol...but here are my answers...which may be duplicated or the same...who knows...hehe

1. the dude who was my first and photog guy who talked a big game but was umm..not so ... in real life..

2. i like the whole tied up thing. i like to role-play.

3. i've only had sex once outside the bedroom and that was in a restaurant.

4. missionary and doggy...cliche but it works.

5. i've only had sex in nyc.

Kryssy October 27, 2008 at 6:48 PM

oh... did I not do it right?
ummm... the other 3? missionary (yum), any position that involves head (HA!), and bent over anything... couch, chair.... doggie style variation... lol

Hey Shae! October 27, 2008 at 7:02 PM

If he's stressed out like that he's probably thanking you too. ;-)

NaturallyAlise October 27, 2008 at 11:21 PM

1) the psycho who i had to take to court multiple times...

2) turned on by ice or the polar opposite of hot oil

3) at the lake, at the lake in the tuck, at the lake on top of the truck....

4)can't go wrong with good ol' D to the O to the double G - I - E

5)Las Vegas, Savannah, Charlotte, Viginia Beach, D.C.

Brothers Blog October 28, 2008 at 12:54 PM

1. MHG

2. Being in control: Hand cuff and blind fold the female and have my way.

3. In the Car, On the balcony, Outside in a chair, kitchen counter, living room couch/floor, basement, the studio, etc.

4. Woman on top, from the back.

5. Chicago, L.A.

Brothers Blog October 28, 2008 at 1:51 PM

3. Oh forgot to add at work! :-D

Monique October 29, 2008 at 1:36 PM

1. The crazy dude that keeps texting me. We got down 8 years ago and he's still calling begging. WTF?

2. I love being spanked, hair pulled. Anytime of pain inflicted but not enough to cause blood or send me to the hospital. Been there, done that.

3. The lobby of my freshmen dorm during the middle of the day. LOL People thought I was just sitting on his lap. Little did they know....; movie theater; driving down I-75; in the bathroom during the middle of a house party

4. Doggie style, reverse cowgirl, woman on top; over the sofa; standing up

5 Virginia Beach; New Orleans; Shrevport; Jackson; Atlanta; Augusta.

Anonymous October 31, 2008 at 12:24 AM

1. My sons father

2. To have sex on the beach while its raining

3. Zoo bathroom, car, bathroom, living room....damn I feel like a freak right ( y did you have to ask this)

4. getting personal THEN YOU HAD ME CLICK ON THE LINK......)ok ok...I only have one, doggy style

5.Maryland, Virginia, DC, North Carolina, and Lagos


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