Now I have been to Hudson River Cafe, and a couple other places since where I have been sitting next to couple on their first blind date. I never ever thought that I could do it. I would never do one of those dating sites either... but I thought it might be fun to have my blog fam set it up. Then I said nevermind and came to my senses because the whole idea is just weird to me but I still wanted to share how whacky my mind works just in case anyone else wants to be the guinea pig, and tell about the journey on their blog.
So here is how I was thinking it would work.
1. Blogger posts characteristics of the type of guy/gal he/she likes
2. Readers comment with a brief description of a guy/gal they know in the area they feel would be a perfect match
3. Blogger decides which of those people he/she would like to go on a blind date with
4. Reader alert their friend but doesn't make them aware of the person's blog. (Just in case the date is a nightmare we don't want the person to read about how bad it was after)
5. Couple goes on blind date
6. Blogger writes about how it went
So whose in for trying it? I damn sure ain't... but it might be fun for others in the blogosphere!
HAPPY HOUR TONIGHT AT COVO... HOPE TO SEE YOU THERE!!!
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lol... girl you are a nut. You're gonna have people getting set up with convicts and sex offenders...Wait? how is that different from any other random meeting and consequent date.
Carry on :)
LOL @ pajnstl. Right, right.....it does sound like fun, though. But yes....I shall be on the sidelines readin' posts. That song "Words" by Anthony David and India on your page has made my day. I music on blogs ain't THAT bad. Haaaa, have a beautiful Wednesday, sis.
LOL That sounds like a good idea. I would love the read the posts after the date from hell!
sounds like fun...i wud do it, im open for trying new things, but i would be too scared, not scared as in "oh no,what is she gonna think of me" scared, more like "oh damn, theres alot of crack heads out there" scared.
and yes, ive had bad experiences..
and also, people are not what they seem and i live in the UK.
this reminds me of the last matchmaker i did...came back and haunted me..anyway thats 4 another day.
lol at mp, me too
oh yh ebb, feeling the banner..its very creative!
and is that freshandfab i c on the laptop,lol
I'll pass on the blind dates. Been one only to discover he was gay and not that into me after all. We met online (at the urging of my mother to setup an online dating profile) and I haven't been back sense.
oh no no no... I'm gonna pass as well... blind dates are that last frontier that I just promised myself to NEVER cross!
but of course I'll be the first one reading the post about the date afterwards!! lol
EB_MATCH.COM
lol
Nahhhh! But I'd love to read about someone else's experiences.
*mans up*
I would do it!
Too bad i'm in DC. i would totally be up for it. I'm all for trying new things and you know there is usually a good story to tell at the end of the night. lol.
you are crazy though!
The new banner is definitely hot!
@patrice - and I aint taking the blame for any madness...lol
@f&f - your alright over there...lol
@monique - yeah that would traumatize me too
@Nina - go on head girl... post it on your blog and get it going...
@ young woman - the key is to find other bloggers in the area... E is in MD and Dave is in DC... there are a lot of DC bloggers... you guys should hook each other up...fo real fo real!
I've never been on a blind date. I don't like people setting me up because they dont' know what I like b/c I don't know what I like. I just know what I like when I see it.
LOve this idea...though I am in a relationship, so I am out, if you would have caught me just two months ago, I would DEFINITELY be IN IN IN IN.....
This is so creative!
Hahaha....thats a negative....
@southern gal - I feel you... my friends always think they know my type and pick guys out in the club an I'm like ewe... so they stopped trying...lol
@charles - you dont count... your taken!
I've been on blind dates before...set up by people who supposedly luv me...and dude still turned out to be some kind of suspect.
The very last thing I would want is a blind date arranged by strangers...idontthinkso!
My nosy ass would love to read about someone else's story though! lol
....Eb...you know I'm crazy and would be more than willing to do something like this...but I have to have my round Dreamy... in the background just incase something pops off...."put your hands in the air...and we can all go home safely... LOL!
omg please let me know if you get someone to do it! lolol! that would be a good read!
i was talking to a blogger and im sure everyone knows about it cuz we were goin HARD for a min lol...
-KB
i would do it, but i am pretty sure no one knows anyone in my area. i am kinda in the middle of nowhere
I have never been on a blind date because the thought of meeting up with someone and having to endure some considerable length of time with them whether I like them or not is scary lol. Now I would be all game for reading someone's blog who went through with it!!!
Eb,eb, eb - the relentless pursuit of love and romance continues I see - even if its for someone else. Well, unfortunately I wont be able to attend but I would guess that you would be open to meeting people blindly => Hell for all he knew, the little spaniard prob thought you were his girl for a moment =>
Good idea. All blind dates are not bad. Hubby and I met on a blind date and have been together ever since.
LOL.. not hatnin fa me.. but its a funny idea.. I mean how would it work anyways, for, say, a cali boy to meet up wit someone in the A or somethin LOL
@ Stew - where are ya?
@soumy - you always seems to pop by in at the strangest times.. and he was flirting with me and my girls the whole time...lol
@swag - you wouldn't meet someone in the A silly... someone in the A will hook you up with someone they know in your area or you link up with bloggers in your area and you each hook each other up
I don't see anything wrong with blind dates and online dating and such
The guys I've met through other "conventional" avenues have not been worth my time--as they say "you have to kiss a lot of frogs"
my husband to be is someone I met online and we would never have run into each other any other way
I'd do it all over again
Oh heck naw...lol
I ain't down for that one either Eb! That might work for some but I have to pick my own blessings, although I must admit, there is some fine sistas out in this blogisphere... Including you! :0)
haha... nice, it soulds good in theory, but i dont know if it'll work out. did you ever get the maxwell cd i sent? i didnt get a response, so i guess yes, but i didnt know. and yea, have fun at the happy hour. im sure you will. later
It sounds great. It sounds like a good idea but there is something about it... nope, not gonna do it.
I'm all down for meeting people but there are some quirks about me that I just have to have and folks aren't gonna be able to find for me.
Dang I can't wait to hear the stories from this..too bad I'm not close enough to come to happy hour...one weekend though..one weekend :)
I'd do it! Just for the writing material - if nuffin' else! The comments are pretty funny, too - especially STOOPID T-Dawg's:
EB_MATCH.COM
LMAO!!!
But, er, ummm #4 - won't their blogs get put on blast AFTER they return home & write about it?
Either way - if u set up Eb_Match I'll be a test case. LOL! I've done a bit of online dating & I've been set up with blind dates by friends & colleagues - not all bad...no "magic", but interesting experiences...
lemme go get ready & not flake out on ya, tonight;-).
That's a dope plan, but I've learned that I'm no good at being a match maker....people just end up in love - heart broken and mad at me :-)
...But it'd be interesting to read about.
blind dates are always scary. I do the online dating thing and even though I get to see their picture, you really don't know how accurate it is until you meet them. And from my experience- men lie just like women. I got two dates this weekend with "online" guys- scary! However in the long run I know too many success stories to get scared off by the online dating thing so I guess the risk is worth it! But this method you propose is a little too scary for me!
Why did that seem super complicated to me? Could be that I'm only 3 weeks from finals so I'm overanalyzing everything.
I'd be game for a blind date. Wait! I'm retired for the summer! Lol.
I would do it...But not that many people read my blog so I dont know if it would work but it is something I would consider...
lol. i learned my lesson.
i tried a blind date once.why people always embellish? if shes fat dont say shes thick cause all thats gonna do is piss me off.just be real.lol dont get me to telling you that story.girl showed up on the date hating men.i was like I JUST MET YOU!!!
blind dates hahve never worked for the kid
if i werent chicken shit, i'd be the lab rat for this experiment
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scary idea. but kudos for thinking of it. glade you didnt go through with it. people are crazy out here.
I'm pretty adventurous. I've been on 2 blind dates. Sight unseen. I'd do it again for shits and giggles.
I've also gone out with a couple of bloggers, but they make me more nervous than regular blind dates.
Ha this is pretty good idea. I'm clearly not able to do it but I do know some single men
Hmmm could be interesting if I were some where larger than Nasty Nashville. Thanks for the blog love Eb. I need to add you to my blogroll. MY surgery is in the morning. :) boo gallstones yay EB!
LMAO @ you tryna do experiments on other people! Haha
How you gonna suggest some shit that you wouldn't do? Lol.
Hey Sistah!
UMMM....Imma have to say NO...but I'd love to read about it....lol
I love your blog!!! from the post to the music lol... and hell nah that blog blind date shit is wack lmao...
I went on a blind date once.... chick had a mustache. yeah I won't be doing it again.. lol
LOL! How fantastic is this??? If I wasn't almost down the aisle I'd do it for sure! *sigh* Dayummit!!! LOL
actually it sounds like fun.
There is NO way in hell I would do this even if I were single... but DAMN I want someone else to. This is a damn good idea Eb! lol
I'd SO guinea Pig my ass for this except I like weird And God and the lord baby Jesus KNOW i need not get my hands into any more fuckery seeing as how I STAY busy and way beyond datey
state college PA
...but what if the person is in like....wichita, kansas?
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