" One man's trash is another man's treasure!"

These are not my words but I felt compelled to share them just the same....

The man that treats you like trash is ignorant to your worth and who he is and his role to you. He is not even worth you or your time. Let him go and let the man of God that God has molded (or may be still molding) just for you, find you. He will know your worth and treat you as such according to this wisdom. You will be a treasure to him. King Solomon said:

"Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies. The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil. She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life." - Proverbs 3:10-12

What is a virtuous woman? Well, Virtuous is defined as, ( via the Encarta Dictionary) : 1. with moral intergrity; having or showing goodness or righteousness 2. chaste; not having sexual intercourse with anyone except a partner in marriage, especially a husband (as Christian we know that it should ONLY be in marriage)

After reading this definition, can you attribute this adjective to yourself? If so, continue pleasing your Lord. If not, this is to be your aim as a Christian woman in mind, body and soul.

The Bible also tells us:

"Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the LORD." (Proverbs 18:22) YOU are to be sought after. YOU are to be chased. YOU are to be found. Not vice versa. You sit still and seek God first. Is it easy waiting? NO! But what God has in store is so worth the wait. That's what I continually remind myself.

The Lord does not cast His pearls to swine. You are a pearl to the Lord. If you give Him your heart and set His destiny in your hands, He will not give you over to a man that does NOT FERVENTLY seek the heart of Christ and love the Lord. God is protective of His children and your heart. So don't settle for what the enemy puts in your way. If this man does not reflect Ephesians 5 (especially verse 25!) or aims to live that way. Don't even bother. Be encouraged my sisters.

Blessings!

1 comment

Mimi June 6, 2008 at 10:12 AM

I really like this...this something to live by when it comes to these dudes :-)
(I'm new to the blogging thing, just checking out your page...good stuff :-)

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